tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-70456139667444039192023-11-16T06:35:52.058-05:00Words Through the WreckageThis. Is. Real.
These are thoughts, feeling, notes, pictures and life as it happens. I will not be an imitation of something I'm not. Posts will be intense, sometimes boring, but ultimately a look inside myself. It will be about speaking to the Creator and asking in-depth questions about how to further my faith, and possibly yours. This blog will be written from the perspective of Ephesians 5:1, "be imitators of God".Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.comBlogger105125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-51266796795248369802016-10-31T19:00:00.000-04:002016-10-31T19:00:01.118-04:00Climbing Out of My Tree<i>After a brief stint writing in another space, I find myself back here in the comfort of this place for a variety of reasons. The biggest reason being that writing deadlines, are <u style="font-weight: bold;">not</u> my forte. Which is additional proof that my decision to not pursue journalism or some other writing major in college was the best decision for all of us. </i><br />
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Now, why do I find myself back here? Well, because as usual God has been at work in ways that I couldn't fathom until yesterday. Before I explain exactly what happened yesterday, let me give you the back story of what led to this latest revelation...<br />
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One month ago, on September 30th, 2016, a dream that was 6 years in the making became a reality. Thanks to my current role at my company, I finally moved to Nashville, TN (albeit only for 6 months... for now). I was ecstatic, and literally could not wait to get down here. I have always been enthralled with the Music City and was incredibly confident that I would love every moment spent here. I can now confidently tell you, after a month of being here, that my view of what this was going to be like was highly romanticized. That's not to say that I don't still love this city, or that I'm not as excited as I once was. It's simply to say that the transition has been anything but easy to cope with.<br />
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In my head, I think I thought I was immune to the feelings of homesickness, that I would be resilient in this new place and that my social life, faith life, and general sense of community would remain as it was back home, where I had lived all of my 28 years (aside from college life). That first week was a lot of "new" to explore -- new office, new apartment, new roads, new running trails, new adventures were around every corner. It was fantastic! Then my parents came to visit, which made everything that much more real. However, about halfway through that 2nd week, reality set in.<br />
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A new office -- where I didn't really know anyone<br />
A new apartment -- where I lived alone, without knowing any of my neighbors<br />
New roads -- that were unfamiliar and easily confused<br />
New running trails -- which were the only thing that quickly became comfortable<br />
New adventures -- which aren't quite as exciting when you're adventuring by yourself<br />
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See, for those of you that may not know me... I'm quite the extrovert. I thrive on human interaction, and usually am so busy that a random Friday night home alone is welcomed. However, when you spend the majority of your evenings alone, it starts to become overwhelmingly... lonely.<br />
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Before anyone gets worried or upset that I didn't reach out to them, I'm not talking about the same kind of loneliness I have experienced in the past. Not the kind of loneliness that finds you in a dark place. It was just out of my element, and I wasn't handling it as well as I should have been. I started to internalize a lot of things, and in turn, I started to project those same things onto the people I care about. Whether that was in the form of pestering them about trivial things, or pushing them away -- neither was healthy. Despite that I've apologized, I can't help but still feel some disappointment in myself for handling it that way. I digress - I knew at the root of all of this, was the need to find a temporary church home in Nashville. That's where I had to start building this community I craved.<br />
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I had a short list of churches - 5 to be exact. At the bottom of that list was Crosspoint. The reason this particular church was at the bottom, was because I felt like I had already been there. I've been following their (now, former) Pastor Pete Wilson for years on his blog and the books that he has written. I've also followed Carlos Whittaker (often referenced in this space) and Jon Acuff for the last 9 years, both of whom attend Crosspoint. I knew that the ministry style was very similar to the church I so dearly loved in Lexington during college, and so in order to "broaden my horizons", I stuck it at the bottom of the list so as not to overlook the other churches on my list. That was the logic in my head at least...<br />
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There's an old saying... "If it ain't broke, don't fix it" -- or in this case, if a ministry style works, don't ignore it.<br />
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On Saturday night, I made a plan for which church on my list I would attend. I didn't sleep well at all Saturday night, and I was grumpy as hell on Sunday morning when I got up. As I was trying to give myself a pep talk about getting up to make it to the 9:00 AM service at the church I had planned to attend, I felt this pull to go to Crosspoint instead. Even as I got in the truck, I was trying to argue with myself (and with God) about going to Crosspoint instead of the other church, but it was like the truck just started driving itself -- my plans for that morning be damned!<br />
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I walked into Crosspoint that morning, and while it was totally new, there was a peace about being there. There were plenty of people at the doors talking and greeting people as they walked in. One guy in particular shook my hand and introduced himself as Jordan. Asked me if I had been coming there long, and when I said this was my first time visiting, he quickly told me to follow him and took me to introduce me to a guy named Kenny. Kenny started asking questions, I mentioned I had moved from Indiana and he promptly hollered over to another guy (whose name escapes me) and said "This is Brad, he's from Indiana -- aren't you from Indiana?". While overwhelming, I couldn't help but be thankful for the welcoming these guys were showing me. Kenny and I talked a bit longer, he gave me a free coffee mug (kudos to Crosspoint for that welcoming gift!) and asked me to look for him after the service (as did Jordan before him) so I could let him know what I thought.<br />
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I grabbed some free coffee -- something I really love about the way churches are changing -- and walked into the main room (Sanctuary? Meeting room? Big Church? I don't know what they call it). I was greeted again -- these people love saying hello -- and decided to take a seat in the upper rows, middle section so I could see everything and everyone around me. I sat there for a few moments looking around the room (hoping I would spot Carlos or Jon), and checking my phone - when a lady behind me squeezed my shoulder and said "I noticed your coffee mug, glad you're here with us this morning". Thanks, me too.<br />
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All I can say about the ensuing service is -- God knew what He was doing when He directed me to Crosspoint that morning. They had a speaker who had never preached before, but absolutely killed it. His message was Biblical, Christ focused and as a speaker he was engaging, sentimental, funny, and heartwarming. He challenged me right out of the gate by simply saying that "Jesus chose us, so that we could choose others". Let the overwhelming sense of conviction commence.<br />
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I won't recap the whole message, but I highly encourage you to listen to it online. He talked about Zacchaeus and being up in the tree. Now, I had heard that story (and that annoyingly catchy song) 1000 times or more, but this was the first time it had been presented from the viewpoint that Zacchaeus had a choice to make that day. He could either stay in that tree where it was safe, and comfortable, observing Jesus and then going back to his day... OR he could accept Jesus' invitation, trust him, and enter into community with him at his house over a meal.<br />
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I'm starting to get a headache from all the times God has smacked me in the back of the head.<br />
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It was exactly what I needed to hear. You see, in many ways I am Zacchaeus and Columbus/Hope, IN is my tree. Nashville, was my invitation to trust Jesus and enter into a different kind of community with him. That's not to say I'm giving up on Columbus/Hope, or the people there that I love. I just needed to realize that I had a choice to make. I could either continue comparing this opportunity to the safety of my tree, OR I could accept Jesus' invitation to trust him, and experience some real growth as a person by diving into a new community here. I had to let go of the comfort of "this is temporary, I have friends at home" and enter into the awkwardness of "Hi I'm Brad, I'm new, and I want to make friends". So I climbed out of my tree Sunday, and put both feet on the ground of Nashville, TN. I don't know what the next 5 months hold, but I'm pretty excited about what God is going to do with me.<br />
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Just so you know, I cried my whole way to the bakery I had found nearby (and then the whole way home because it took too long and it cost too much -- thanks a lot hipsters) because I was overwhelmed by how much Jesus loves me enough to meet me where I am.<br />
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Jesus chose us, so that we could choose others.<br />
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It's better that way.<br />
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Grace and Peace<br />
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<br />Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-84469637120526989112016-05-23T21:51:00.002-04:002016-05-23T21:51:25.711-04:00Storytelling: The Current Story
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Stories make up this world that we live in. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">If you think about it long enough, you realize that all the
things that happen during our lives are not only part of our bigger story, but
they are also individual stories in their own right. Individual stories that
have meaningful, lasting, impacts on not only ourselves but on the people
around us at that time in the past, at this time in the present, and at some
time in the future. And when you put it that way, it can feel one of two ways:
either a lot heavier, or a lot more freeing. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">For me personally, I love stories – of all kinds. I love
reading and listening to other peoples’ stories and other peoples’ lives. What
I’m not always good at is telling and writing my own stories. I realize today,
during this current story, that that’s a common theme within humanity. It’s
easier to sit in silence and focus on other peoples’ stories than to come to
grips with and vocalize our own. At the moment in which we are comfortable with
that, I find that God uses someone else’s story (even someone we’ve never met)
to impact our own, and stir within us the desire to share our story. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">That’s what happened to me today, during this 8.5 hour ride
from Staley, North Carolina back to Hope, Indiana. The person God is using is
Jamie Tworkowski and his book “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">If You
Feel Too Much”</i>. I’ve never met Jamie – although I did hear him speak at a
conference once – but I can say I feel connected to him. I can say that his
stories continue to impact my own in ways I never dreamt they would. I could
talk… or rather write… pages about Jamie, the good he is doing and the impact
he is having on my stories and the stories of countless people. It’s human
nature to divert attention to someone else instead of ourselves when it comes
to the tough parts. What is important today is that Jamie reminded me that writing
my stories, it’s engrained in who I am. When I’m not writing these stories,
when I’m not vocalizing them I don’t feel like myself as much as I should. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Here’s the current story.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">The current story that I’m in, the one that fits inside the
27 (and a half) year story of my life is one of restless content. I realize
that’s an oxymoron… so let me explain. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I like my life. I have a great job, a nice home, reliable
truck, many friends, a small group of trusted advisors, and an amazing family.
I’m content with those things (most of the time). I have no need to complain,
and believe me when I say I’m not doing that here. This isn’t me trying to find
a reason to write by looking for something to complain about – this is me
organizing the restlessness and telling this story. Where I find myself feeling
restless is in the kind of work I’m doing, the changes that come along with investing
in other people’s stories, and the often annoying uncertainty of what God is
doing “behind the scenes”. I have to say that being restlessly content is quite
the double edged sword. One edge being that I am thankful for the way that God
has blessed me, the other edge being I am… expectant for what is to come, both
the good and the seemingly bad. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">The writer in me is almost always trying to finish the end
of a story before it’s time. I can compare my thought process as being very
similar to a “Pick-your-own-ending” novel. You remember what I’m talking about,
those books where the author would present a cliff-hanging-esque moment and
then write “If you want to explore the dark, cold cavern go to page 57 OR if
you want to walk back to your truck and drive to your Mom’s house for pie turn
to page 71.” If you and I are honest with ourselves, we know we ultimately try
to read both without getting confused. We want to be risk takers within our
stories, but also stick to what’s comfortable. What that means for this current
story that I find myself in is a lot of time considering both scenarios, and
ultimately being none-the-wiser for doing so. Whether it’s navigating a
friendship that has changed drastically, planning my career path, anticipating
the next big accomplishment, or deciphering a stirring in my heart for someone
I’m not sure I had thought of in that way previously – I want to “cheat the
system” and explore both endings before it happens. I want to skip ahead and
write my own ending. Ultimately that ending is the friendship returns to what
it once was and I get the girl. We all want to create the endings to our own
stories. And while we have an impact in the direction of our stories, we are
merely the protagonist, while God is the Author.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">What I’m learning is that my choices, in fact, due lead to
the ending to my stories. Slowly. What I’m realizing is that if I keep trying
to jump to the ending, I miss the rest of the story. If the classics jumped
from beginning to end without the story in the middle, they wouldn’t be
classics. How many people would be talking about Moby Dick 165 years later if
it said “Call me Ishmel.” And then the next words were “Now small fowls flew
screaming over the yet yawning gulf; a sullen white surf beat against its steep
sides; then all collapsed, and the great shroud of the sear rolled on as it
rolled five thousand years ago.” The only thing that would be said about a
story written like that, would be that the author was a nut job and the book
was awful. There is beauty in the journey of the story. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">That’s the moral of my current story. That there is beauty
in the journey of the story. At some point in a future story I’ll look back at
this story, at the confusion, the uncertainty, the enjoyment, the restlessness
and the contentment – and I’ll wish I had slowed down enough to appreciate the
journey of that story. I’m realizing this current story is one worth telling,
and that’s very telling in and of itself. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">To be continued…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Grace and Peace, <o:p></o:p></span></div>
Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-78782510446877024482016-05-03T21:59:00.001-04:002016-05-03T21:59:10.996-04:00It just took one bad tumble...This last two months has been... interesting? I'm not sure if that's the right word in all honesty. In fact, I'm not sure if any of the words you are going to find here are <i>the right words</i>. However, I am going to write them anyway. The question is where do I begin to process things, which lesson do I start with first, who do I give the first thank you too...<br />
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Instead of trying to give you the play by play of the last two months, let me just start with the most recent lesson. A lesson, that I did not realize God was teaching me until about 10 minutes ago, before I pulled my MacBook off the counter. You see, today something happened to me for the first time... today, I broke the screen on my iPhone. I know what some of you may be thinking, "first world problems" and you would be correct. When I dropped my phone (without a case mind you) as I got out of my truck this morning, and watched it fall in slow motion to the concrete floor of the parking garage, I felt the anger and disappointment rise inside me. I have carried a smart phone for 6 years, and never once have I broken it. In the 14 years I've had a cell phone, I can't recall ever breaking one. I began to beat myself up over it with silly thoughts of "Why didn't you have a case on it dummy" and "If you would be more careful this wouldn't have happened". Funny thing is, those things aren't true nor are there guarantees that a case or being more careful would have prevented it from breaking. Naturally I told a few people, and the one response that really stuck out was "It just took one bad tumble". All day I kept playing that comment over and over in my head. When 10 minutes ago it hit me that God was using this silly phone to teach me a lesson.<br />
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You see, the last two months have been difficult for me, despite the fact that very few people know that. I haven't been honest with a lot of people about the things I've been facing. In fact, the person who sent that text today, doesn't even know the whole story -- or the impact that text had on me. That statement "It just took one bad tumble" pretty much sums up the last two months. It's been one bad tumble for me on an emotional and spiritual level the last 8 weeks. Of course my immediate reaction to a broken phone, was that I needed to replace it. Buy a new one, fix it somehow, do anything I could to "bandage" it. That's what we do with our lives when they take a tumble. We look for the quick fix, we look to replace the problem. The funny thing, is that aside from a few cracks at the top of the screen it's fully functioning, there's nothing wrong with it really. In all honesty, as I've sat here this evening, I've noticed how much better care I've taken of it. Which is how we should respond to our lives when we take a tumble. God doesn't replace us once we are broken, he doesn't try to find a way to change what has happened in the past... He uses it to teach us to take better care of our lives, and shows us that there is nothing wrong with a few cracks.<br />
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I've always talked about the beauty of brokenness. Somehow I forgot to listen to my own words. I talk a lot about transparency, but I've failed miserably to do that in the last 8 weeks as well. While I don't think I need to list out all of the cracks at this moment, mainly because I know some of them are meant to be between myself and God, I do know that I needed to write this. Maybe it's just for myself, maybe it's so God can continue to teach me the things He's doing, the ways in which He is working. I'm not really sure. What I do know is that God is starting to connect the cracks that have appeared the last 8 weeks. He's teaching me the stories of each line, showing me what it leads to next. And just like with this phone, those cracks are going to grow, change direction, connect to one another, and ultimately at some point, create a situation in which I need to retire the current version of my phone and move on to something new, and something different. Which, is exactly what He does with our "one bad tumble". Over time, the wounds, the cracks, the brokenness I have felt over the last 8 weeks will grow some, it will change directions, they will all connect with each other. And once they do, God will use that time to retire that season of my life, that version of me, and move me towards something new, and something different. <br />
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The beauty is in the breakdown.<br />
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Grace and Peace,<br />
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BBrad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-75653597091389519492016-02-17T22:10:00.001-05:002016-02-17T22:10:10.660-05:00507: Planting the Seed of Passion<u><b>507.</b></u><br />
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That's how many days have passed since the last time I wrote in this space. To be honest, that's probably how long it's been since I've written anything of significance. I wish I could say it was simply because I've been busy, or I haven't been "inspired" -- but if I said that, it would be untrue. I think the true issue behind the lack of writing, is that I lost my desire to pursue my passion. I let everything else in my world distract me from this. Whether or not that is because I was afraid to enter back into this place of vulnerability or that I needed a season that didn't include writing is something I can't be sure of. However, what I am certain of is that, I've felt an emptiness and a longing to return to this. Instead of updating you on all that's occurred in the last 507 days, I want to try and pull together the conversations, thoughts, experiences, and insights that have prompted this return.<br />
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<u>Conversations planted a seed.</u><br />
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Since the beginning of this new year, I've had a number of conversations with people about what this year holds for us. Some of those conversations revolved around relationships, work, the gym, and how to better ourselves. You know, the typical "new year, new me" mentality. All the while, I was thinking about all the years past that I set goals for myself that I failed to achieve, many of which, revolved around writing. I remember driving home from work and thinking "That whole writing thing, that's the old me! That's not who I am anymore, that season of my life is long gone". Moment of sheer vulnerability: I think that was me trying to convince myself that I didn't have to do this ever again. I wanted to believe that my season of vulnerability was gone! As usual, God had different plans...<br />
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Fast forward a few weeks, and you'll find me down in Louisville with a group of people that I truly consider to be family. Around 10-11 years ago, these people invited me into their lives and they've been paying the price ever since! In all seriousness, they aren't just good(e) people, they are some of the best. Granted that day was filled with a lot of furniture moving, logistical thinking, and even a few under the breath curse words now and then (door frames hurt your hands), but more importantly it was filled with laughter, love and great fellowship. It was during that time, that the matriarch of this crew (even though she's surely not a day over 27), and someone I consider to be a Mom to me in every sense of the word (her and Woman even share the same name!) made a comment that planted the seed. During the conversation Lori asked why it had been so long since I had written anything on my blog. She went on to tell me how much she enjoyed reading it, and that I was good at it. It had been a while since someone had told me I was good with words. From that moment forward, God began working in my heart, the return was imminent. <br />
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<u>Experiences cultivated the seed.</u><br />
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All too often, when God plants a seed we are guilty of ignoring it, especially when that seed inevitably will sprout something we don't think we are prepared for. Of course, since God knows my heart better than I ever could -- He saw the reluctance I had to cultivate this seed, so He found a way that would do that, in a very subtle way. Over the last 3 weeks, I've gotten a number of opportunities to see people take part in the things they are <b>passionate</b> about. I spent time in Lexington with people <b>passionate </b>about helping others. I attended a wedding and watched two people start a life with the person they have <b>passionately</b> pursued. I went to Atlanta, and I stood in many of the same spots that Martin Luther King Jr had stood, while working fervently and <b>passionately</b> for Civil Rights. I went to a collegiate Indoor Track and Field meet, and watched a friend run with <b>passion</b>. Even better, I got to witness her hard work pay off as she achieved new things in her <b>passion</b> for running. That night, on the way home from IWU I spent some time in conversation with God. Over and over I kept hearing God say to me "Brad what are you <b>passionate</b> about? What are you doing to pursue those passions? What does that look like in a way that honors Me?" As much as I hate to admit this, I remember responding with "Lord, I'm not really sure in this moment, where my passion lies". Talk about an intrinsic kick in the pants! God was asking me directly what my passion was and how I was honoring HIS KINGDOM with that passion... and I couldn't answer him.<br />
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Naturally, I did what I do best. I got busy... distracting myself from that question. I put so much focus into other things, friendships, projects, big picture dreams, stressful situations, that not only did I lose sight of the seed... I began to lose myself. I started acting almost in complete hypocrisy of the person that God was calling me to be. My desire to honor Him at work was lessening, I wasn't handling stress effectively, I allowed myself to become the kind of "friend" I always swore I would never become. I was no longer Brad. I wasn't me. As always though, God was still the God I know is bigger than all of that. He sent waves to knock me down and carry me back to shore. It started with a Saturday filled with rest. A Sunday filled with a sermon, a conversation about relationships with my gym buddy, and plenty of moments of silence. A difficult but necessary Monday, filled with stress at work, uncertainty about the future, and a wake up call from a close friend. A Tuesday filled with more stress at work, an incredibly solid lunch time conversation about faith, some redemption within my soul, and some much needed sleep.<br />
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<u>Wednesday the seed sprouts.</u><br />
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Which brings us to today. Today was just a good, solid day. I started my day with some quiet time with the Lord, and followed that with an hour commute with my dear friend (and now Dentist (in training)) Bria. Why wouldn't God combine someone I love and something I'm uncomfortable with (my teeth) into a day that brings everything full circle. Here's the thing, I've known Bria forever, and I've seen her succeed at basically everything she's ever put her mind too. BUT I have never seen her so passionate about something. Today it showed through in how she interacts with her co-workers, her superiors, the patient (me!), the focus she uses to excel at each task, the confidence she has in her ability, and her lack of fear when it comes to admitting she's not exactly sure about something. It was eye-opening, and after I got home (with freshly cleaned and much happier teeth!) I was able to really process today. I sent her a text to let her know how impressed I was and how proud of her I am. Not long after I sent that text, God slapped me in the back of the head and said "Get your computer, and get busy writing." So here I am...<br />
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<u>What grows from the sprout?</u><br />
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That's a really great question. One that I'm exploring at length, but what I do know is it starts right here. It started to grow the moment I got my computer out, reset the password to my blog (I couldn't remember it), and started typing. Granted that first paragraph was reluctant, and I tried to distract myself with the TV, text messages, and anything else I could think of. Yet, as always, God watered the sprout. Except this time, I wasn't covering it with an umbrella of fear. No this time, I lifted my hands to the sky and let the rain wash over everything. I let God's grace and mercy wash over everything. And as always, with every keystroke, the weight of the last 507 days began to lift. I am lighter, I am calm, I am no longer anxious. While I'm not yet fully me again, I'm taking steps in the right direction. All I can ask from you, is that if we talk regularly, you hold me accountable to pursuing my passions of writing and serving God through serving others. It's really that simple.<br />
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"<span class="verse-5"></span><strong></strong><span class="verse-6">I planted the seed in your hearts, and Apollos watered it, but it was God who made it grow.</span><strong></strong><span class="verse-7"> It’s not important who does the
planting, or who does the watering. What’s important is that God makes
the seed grow.</span><strong></strong><span class="verse-8"> The one who plants and the one who
waters work together with the same purpose. And both will be rewarded
for their own hard work." 1 Corinthians 3:6-8</span><br />
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<span class="verse-8">Grace and Peace. </span><br />
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Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-54974867680560343522014-09-28T16:19:00.000-04:002014-09-28T16:19:51.484-04:00Constant. Present. Loving. God. This post is an annual post, that usually comes along in December. Those of you that have been following my blog for the last 5 years (I can't believe it's been that long), probably have a good idea of what I'm about to talk about. Those of you that are new here.. let me bring you up to speed as quickly as possible. You see, 9 years ago on December 19th, 2005 my family lost our home to a house fire. When I say we lost our home, I mean that literally. Everything. Gone. It was a mess and it still gives me nightmares at times, it's unfathomable to think that that happened 9 years ago..<br />
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So why am I writing this post 3 months early? Because this year is going to be different. This year, I want to be focused on the joy of what came from that situation. The amount of incredible things that have happened since that day are too numerous to list, but there's one thing that sticks out... one thing, that means more than anything else. My Salvation. That's right, 9 years ago I wasn't a Christian. In fact, I wasn't really much of anything, except angry. I was angry even before the fire, but afterwords that anger grew into complete disdain for God. I cursed him in my car, I turned my back on Him at every turn, I all but renounced any inkling of faith I had in God. The driving force behind my anger was simply this, and it's something many people wrestle with: If there's this great and wonderful God, why on earth did I stand with family and watch my home of 17 years destroyed by fire? Where was he? Why didn't he make it rain that day? At 17 years old I didn't have the answers to these questions, other than that God must not be as great and powerful as everyone says... I was simply afraid. <br />
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"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them,
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<span class="p">Looking back on that time in my life, after 9 years of absolute and complete transformation of who I am, I see now that there was no reason to be afraid. Even when I was spitting in the face of Jesus, even when I was crying out and cursing God... </span><br />
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<span class="p">He was constant. He was present. He was loving. </span><br />
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<span class="p">God made sure everyone was safely out of the house before anything bad happened that morning,. </span><br />
<span class="p">God was the person comforting me while I was screaming in agony.</span><br />
<span class="p">God protected the firefighters who fought like mad to save anything they could.</span><br />
<span class="p">God was who found Grandpa Don's 1950 Purdue class ring so I could feel some sense of peace.</span><br />
<span class="p">God was who gave me the gift of writing, so I could try and process everything I was feeling</span><br />
<span class="p">God was the community of Hope, that literally wrapped His arms around me and provided</span><br />
<span class="p">God was my school, my friends, my family, and the strangers that comforted me at every turn.</span><br />
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<span class="p">And 9 years later, after the beautiful rescue God performed through my Salvation, that lesson holds true...</span><br />
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<span class="p">He is constant. He is present. He is loving.</span><br />
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<span class="p">God built a beautiful new home for my family to share with others, that is filled with love.</span><br />
<span class="p">God is the person I cry out too in agony when the pain from that day rears it's ugly head.</span><br />
<span class="p">God is still protecting me, and providing for me.</span><br />
<span class="p">God is who blessed me with two good jobs, a reliable vehicle, and a home I can call mine.</span><br />
<span class="p">God is who has continued to bless me with the gift of writing, and is using it for His Glory.</span><br />
<span class="p">God is the community of Hope, my friends & family, who I would literally be lost without.</span><br />
<span class="p">God is Community Church of Columbus, who have loved me from day one.</span><br />
<span class="p">God is who entrusted to me this youth group, which is filled with kids that love me like Jesus daily.</span><br />
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And as I continue to walk through life, pursuing God, working towards glorifying Him in all I do, and yet still falling short of the glory of God on a daily basis, that lesson will continue to be truth...<br />
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He will always be constant. He will always be present. He will always be loving.<br />
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God will transform the hearts of my students, and use them to glorify the Kingdom.<br />
God will continue to provide new and exciting opportunities.<br />
God will continue to show me grace and love.<br />
God will always be with me, never leaving and never foresaking.<br />
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Naturally, God brings everything full circle... as I began to write this post today, I saw a picture on Instagram from one of my favorite bloggers, talking about a new worship album and how it literally brought him to tears...<br />
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The name of that band and the name of their self-titled album:<br />
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HouseFires <br />
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Because irony is beautiful, and God takes the dark and dirty in your life, and makes beautiful things.<br />
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Grace and Peace,<br />
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<br />Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-85972303407117644512014-08-03T22:54:00.001-04:002014-08-03T22:54:57.905-04:00My Own Lion's Den... Often times when reading my Bible, whether just for my personal quiet time or preparing a lesson, I catch myself thinking "I want to be a man like ______" (insert whoever I'm reading about that day). Now, I think there's a lot to be said for admiring and respecting the men of the Bible (and the women of course), but this week I came to a new realization about the way I should think about that admiration and respect... Stick with me here.<br />
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I was reading about Daniel last week to prepare for a Youth Group lesson. The lesson was on Daniel 6, when Daniel finds himself in the lions' den. However, this lesson wasn't about what happened when Daniel had been thrown into the lions' den.. no this lesson was about the scriptures describing what was leading up to the moment when Daniel was cast into the lions' den. (I promise, I'll stop saying lions' den now). Here's the background, and I'm going to do some slight paraphrasing for the sake of time and words... After King Belshazzar's death (which was brought upon himself by worshiping wood/gold/etc.) King Darius rose to power. Now, King Darius appointed 120 satraps/provinces, which were essentially governors to oversee the kingdom. Above these 120 men were three administrators, one of whom was Daniel. Now, to put it in simple terms, everyone knew Daniel was the man. It was intended by King Darius that Daniel would be over the whole kingdom. When the other 122 men found this out, they were <strike>overjoyed </strike>... just kidding, they were envious. So they set him up, they knew Daniel was a man of integrity and character and could be found in no fault of breaking the law, so they convinced King Darius to pass a decree. The decree stated that anyone who worshiped or prayed to anything/anyone other than Darius in the next 30 days should be thrown into the... well, the place I said I wouldn't mention anymore. What does Daniel do when he hears the decree?? Not only does he pray three times a day, he does it in front of his windows that face the city, knowing that people will see him.<br />
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I'm in awe. I mean I've heard the story of Daniel before, but never given much thought about the part that isn't completely taught in Sunday School. The part before God saved his life from those ferocious beasts. The part where Daniel showed his integrity, character, and courage in a very brave and brazen way. I mean, you want to talk about displaying your faith, love, and reverence of God in a way that is unabashed! Now, I'm sitting there reading all of this, studying it and soaking it in, when I begin to cry out "Lord, I want to be Daniel, I want to put my life on the line to publicly praise and worship you!" I started to compare myself to Daniel, I started to become envious of Daniel... and I realized in that moment I wasn't like Daniel, I was like the satraps. I was envious of who God had called him to be. I wasn't thankful for the person God has created me to be because I was convincing myself that being a modern day Daniel would be better than who I am! It was in that moment that God whispered to me, in the quiet and still of my empty house, as I sat at the kitchen table "I created you in my image, I have called you to do my work in a way that is different from all others, be confident, be courageous, be comfortable with who you are... don't strive to be Daniel, just be Brad"...<br />
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Here's the thing-- I know that God's Word is truth. I think God intended for us to learn from the men and women of the Bible, but I also believe God calls us to be ourselves. I forget that sometimes, and I find myself comparing who I am to who these men in the Bible were... the problem with that, is that in those moments my own self-image is already low. It's no secret that I struggle with self-confidence and self-worth. I have for many years, and when I compare myself to men like Daniel, satan tries to use that against me. Yet, as satan tries to destroy me... God closes the mouths of the lions', or in this case silences the negatives thoughts I have about myself, and raises me up out of their den. He reminds me that He has created me in His image, that I am His son, His servant, His ambassador. This last week, as this has been resonating inside of me God has spoken some truth into my life about who I am, and while I am in no way perfect, no way completely done growing or learning, I am reassured that I am becoming who God has created me to be.<br />
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Thanks to conversations with new friends, I have re-learned lessons that God taught me years ago about being comfortable with myself. I realized that while admiring and respecting men like Daniel, Abraham, Paul, and many others from the Bible, I need not be envious of who God called them to be. Because I have my own unique qualities, I have the ability to change the world. One moment at a time. I decided this week that I'm going to stop trying to please other people, and focus on pleasing God by just being who God is calling me to be, no matter where that takes me. I want to live the story God has written for me specifically, in the most whimsical way I can (Go read Love Does by Bob Goff... as soon as you finish this blog). I want to be a guy who makes moments for others, for himself, and for the Kingdom (then go read Moment Maker by Carlos Whittaker). I just want to live a good story, I want to learn each lesson, and I want to love the way God has called me too. And when I start to stray from this, I hope someone sends me a link to my own blog. Because I may not be the smartest of me, but I know sometimes God uses moments in the present as precursors for lessons I need to learn, and re-learn, in the future.<br />
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B Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-60987390582567022372014-05-15T16:30:00.000-04:002014-05-15T16:30:00.450-04:00My Brother's KeeperHere's a little follow up lesson from yesterday's post...<br />
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This morning during my quiet time before work (which I was more focused during), I was reading through Genesis 4. As some background, I decided this week to start a plan to read through the Bible in a year, reading both Old and New Testament passages each day. However, yesterday I was so focused on Psalm 46 I failed to complete all of my readings for the day. This morning I decided to go back and re-read yesterday's passages, and then I would read today's at lunch. I'm so glad I went back this morning because something struck me, something from Genesis 4 and the story of Cain and Abel.<br />
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I've read about Cain and Abel hundreds of times. I remember in Sunday School it was always taught that the story of Cain and Abel was a story about not being jealous of others and doing what is right by doing what God wants, not what we want. I'm not discounting that lesson at all, in fact, I think it's a good way for us to teach children about not harboring jealousy and hate in our hearts... but I think it goes deeper than that too. This morning, for the first time, I got a different glimpse of the impact that Genesis 4 should have on our daily lives.<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b><span class="text Gen-4-2" id="en-ESV-82" style="font-style: italic;">"And again, she bore his brother Abel. Now Abel was a keeper of sheep, and Cain a worker of the ground.</span><i> </i><span class="text Gen-4-3" id="en-ESV-83" style="font-style: italic;">In the course of time Cain brought to the <span class="small-caps" style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span> an offering of <span class="crossreference" style="vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-ESV-83A" title="See cross-reference A">A</a>)"></span>the fruit of the ground,</span><i> </i><span class="text Gen-4-4" id="en-ESV-84" style="font-style: italic;">and Abel also brought of <span class="crossreference" style="vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-ESV-84B" title="See cross-reference B">B</a>)"></span>the firstborn of his flock and of their fat portions. And the <span class="small-caps" style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span> <span class="crossreference" style="vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-ESV-84C" title="See cross-reference C">C</a>)"></span>had regard for Abel and his offering, but</span><i> </i><span class="text Gen-4-5" id="en-ESV-85" style="font-style: italic;">for Cain and his offering he had no regard. So Cain was very angry, and his face fell.</span><i> </i><span class="text Gen-4-6" id="en-ESV-86" style="font-style: italic;">The <span class="small-caps" style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span>said to Cain, “Why are you angry, and why has your face fallen?</span><i> </i><span class="text Gen-4-7" id="en-ESV-87" style="font-style: italic;">If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door. <span class="crossreference" style="vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-ESV-87F" title="See cross-reference F">F</a>)"></span>Its desire is for you, but you must rule over it.”</span><span class="text Gen-4-8" id="en-ESV-88" style="background-color: transparent; font-style: italic;"><span class="versenum" style="vertical-align: top;"> </span>Cain spoke to Abel his brother. And when they were in the field, Cain rose up against his brother Abel and <span class="crossreference" style="vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-ESV-88G" title="See cross-reference G">G</a>)"></span>killed him.</span><span class="text Gen-4-9" id="en-ESV-89" style="background-color: transparent; font-style: italic;"><span class="versenum" style="vertical-align: top;"> </span>Then the <span class="small-caps" style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span> said to Cain, “Where is Abel your brother?” He said, <span class="crossreference" style="vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-ESV-89H" title="See cross-reference H">H</a>)"></span>“I do not know; am I my brother's keeper?”</span><span class="text Gen-4-10" id="en-ESV-90" style="background-color: transparent;"><span class="versenum" style="font-style: italic; vertical-align: top;"> </span><i>And the </i><span class="small-caps" style="font-style: italic; font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span><i> said, “What have you done? The voice of your brother's blood <span class="crossreference" style="vertical-align: top;" value="(<a href="#cen-ESV-90I" title="See cross-reference I">I</a>)"></span>is crying to me from the ground." </i>Genesis 4:2-10</span></b></span></div>
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The first few verses there definitely point to the lesson that we shouldn't be jealous of others, we should be focused on pleasing God with our own words and deeds. That's a great reminder, but here's a thought on the last few verses that I'm working through this morning. After Cain kills Abel, the Lord speaks to him and says "Where is Abel your brother?" to which Cain replies "I do not know; am I my brother's keeper?".. Now stick with me here... in 1 John 3:15 it says <span style="font-family: inherit;"><i>"</i><span style="background-color: #fdfeff; color: #001320; line-height: 20px; text-align: justify;"><i>Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him." </i>Which means at some point in my life, multiple points in reality... I am guilty of being Cain. When I harbor anger and jealousy towards my brother (or sister) that manifests itself into hate, I am murdering that person. Which begs the question, when the Lord convicts me about that hate, how am I responding? Am I responding as Cain did and angrily (and snidely) questioning God with "Am I my brother's keeper?"... At times... absolutely that's my reaction. When I am convicted to be there for someone, to respect someone, to reach out to someone, who I have no desire to love (from a selfish perspective) because of hate in my heart that's what I am doing. I'm looking at God and telling him it's not my responsibility, that I am not my brother's keeper. Which couldn't be further from the truth! To some degree, being my brother's keeper is exactly what I am... </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: #fdfeff; color: #001320; line-height: 20px; text-align: justify;">I am called to sharpen my brothers, which means being there for them, looking at for them, caring for them. If I am not spurring my brothers (and sisters) on towards righteousness and holiness, than I am contradicting exactly what God has called me to do. I am no better than Cain, giving God the business by snidely denying that I am my brothers keeper. Granted, my brothers have free will and I can't make their choices for them... but I can encourage them, push them, support them, and unify myself with them in way that keeps them strong in the Word, and the Lord. </span></span></div>
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Relationship with others is so important. In order to live in unity and have strong relationships with others we need to care about our brothers' and sisters' relationship with the Lord. We should be spurring each other on towards growth. When we dwell in unity with each other, we begin to live in tighter community. We are able to remove the resentment Cain had for Abel, because we should be finding joy in the good our brothers and sisters are doing, not harboring jealousy. </div>
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How do you respond when God lays a brother or sister on your heart? Who are you harboring jealousy and hate towards? What can you do to live in better unity with others?</div>
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These are the questions on my heart this morning, these are the questions I'm working through myself.</div>
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Because I know that when God lays a brother or sister on my heart, I want to look to Him not with the response of Cain, but in a response of love saying "They're right where you have called them to be"</div>
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<br />Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-79749875272732071662014-05-14T12:06:00.000-04:002014-05-14T12:06:00.161-04:00Silence speaks volumes. "Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!"<br />
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Psalm 46:10 speaks volumes about being silent and when we allow it too, the silence speaks volumes. Which is something that I struggle with, and believe me, I know that revelation doesn't shock any of you. It's funny, because the last few months I've been pretty silent on here to the point that my writing has become non-existent. I realized last night that that silence is in direct correlation with my lack of silence in my communication with God. When I'm not still, I'm not listening... which a lot of times means I'm not learning. However, it's more complex than that...<br />
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Being that I am a "talker" (which is a vast understatement), I tend to communicate really well on my end, to the point that I over communicate on everything. Don't believe me? Ask my girlfriend, I'm sure she would love to have someone listen about my over communication problem. Here's what I realized yesterday... Sometimes when I pray, especially on long drives, or walks, when I have complete focus and reverence before The Lord, I tend to over communicate. I just continue to spew words, wants, needs, and desires out to God to the point that I don't think I'm really communicating with God anymore, instead, I'm just thinking out loud. My prayers become less reverent & focused, and more rambled & frustrated. I'm often too concerned with telling God to teach me things, to answer me, to provide for me, to heal me, to comfort me... instead of realizing that He is already doing those things, and I could feel His presence in a stronger way if I would just shut up...<br />
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Through this realization came yet another lesson. I'm telling you, when I shut up and listen God pours it on. This morning I read Colossians 3:15-17:<br />
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"And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him."<br />
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I realized that my inability to be still is correlated to my inability to let the peace of Christ rule in my heart, and to let the word of Christ dwell in me. The icing on this cake of realization, is that all of that also causes me to stumble in my thankfulness. I find myself praising and thanking God less when I'm over communicating. One of my prayers almost every day, is that God would shape me into the man he's calling me to be... and somehow, I expect Him to do that without listening to that calling. I want others to see Jesus in me, I want to learn patience and stillness, and I want to practice those things daily. I want to know God, to the fullest extent, to the point that in everything I do whether in word or deed I'm seeking and glorifying Him.<br />
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Unfortunately, I have failed in doing those things daily.<br />
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Fortunately, that failure is forgiven daily, and I am wiped clean.<br />
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In order to know God, we must seek Him, and in order to seek Him, we have to be in relationship with Him, and in order to be in relationship with Him, our communication must become a two way street. I'm going to stop talking, and start listening. I'm going to strive to be more like Jesus today, and find joy in the stillness.<br />
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Grace and PeaceBrad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-53509448331117908972014-02-19T17:21:00.000-05:002014-02-19T17:21:53.091-05:00What to do about Women... Take 2A little less than a year and a half ago, in the fall of 2012 I wrote a post called <a href="http://musicalmindset-realnoimitation.blogspot.com/2012/10/what-to-do-about-women.html" target="_blank">What to do about Women</a>. I covered some things I thought needed to be said about our responsibility as men, to treat women with a certain respect, to cherish them, and to honor them. Please understand, I don't feel like I'm the leading expert on women. Actually, I know for a FACT I am not a leading expert. However, I do know that God has taught me some things through other men, older men than myself, about what it takes to treat women the way God intended. It has also been made very apparent to me, again and again, in the last year and a half that a lot of you missed that post I shared. Because, you just don't get it.<br />
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This time, I'm not writing to men... instead I'm writing to all the boys out there. What I mean by that is I'm writing this for two people groups 1. Boys that by age are not yet men but will be one day, so they need to learn (we could argue when this changes, but we won't) and 2. Boys that by age should be men, but by maturity and actions are far from it. Brothers, please hear me when I say <u style="font-weight: bold;">we have to change the way women are treated.</u> I mean, what on Earth are we doing treating the heiress' to the Kingdom of God like this?? Why aren't we more focused on doing the little things that make them feel like they matter, because <u style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">they deserve to know they do matter</u>. I'm going to lay this out for you, and give you my opinion on the things that need to stop, and the things that should be happening in their place. As I said, I'm not an expert... I don't have all the answers... and I'm not the smartest guy I know, but these are things even the dumbest man should be able to do for the women in his life (and by plural "women" I mean that includes your mother/sister/friends/significant other... I don't mean multiple significant others, wake up!).<br />
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Honestly, I am sick and tired of hearing story after story about women, all kinds of different women, being treated like absolute crap by men who are acting like boys. If I could, I'd grab each of you by the shoulders and shake you back and forth while screaming "What the hell is your problem". Women are beautiful, complex and downright confusing beings... I get that, but they are also often times the most genuine, loving, kind-hearted, compassionate beings you will ever encounter. Why would you want to make her feel like an object or a possession? When God made Eve, he didn't look at Adam and say "I have made you a woman, own her, boss her around, treat her like the dirt that you walk on". NO! God created Adam to work the Garden, and then said "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him" (Genesis 2:18) Then he made a bunch of animals, let Adam name them, and then realized none of these beasts were a suitable helper for Adam. God put Adam to sleep, pulled out a rib, and created the world's first female human being. Adam woke up, looked at her, and said "WOAH MAN, that's awesome" and from then on, the female was known as woman... Okay, Okay, so that part isn't exactly Biblical, but I'm a man, and I know that's what 'ol boy was thinking in his head. What he actually said was "This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman because she was taken out of Man" (Genesis 2:23). Read that again men... bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh. In the first post I wrote I used these scriptures to support the idea that women are to walk beside us, which is true... but I want to make a slightly different point here: again, Adam said bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. Woman came from Man, woman is a part of man. As men, we demand respect because we are men! So, if woman came from man... doesn't she deserve the same respect we demand for ourselves? Shouldn't we love the women in our lives, as much as (if not more) than we love ourselves? I say we should, it makes complete sense. Woman was taken from the side of man to be his helper (and not in the sense that she's a subordinate), why wouldn't we want to treat women with the same dignity, respect, love and desire that we (most of the time) treat ourselves with?<br />
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Look, what I'm trying to say is... let's stop acting like boys and start acting like men.<br />
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Stop telling a woman you "don't really want to commit, but we can hang out". If you aren't interested in pursuing her heart, but rather just her body-- don't waste her time.<br />
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Don't ridicule her or put her down for things you don't understand. Women are (often times) more emotional than men, that doesn't give us free reign to mock their emotions (or get mad at them for being emotional) just because we don't understand... sometimes, they don't even understand why they are emotional (so I'm told).<br />
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Stop. Don't. Quit. Never. Are all words that should come before this phrase "make(ing) her feel unworthy". Guess what guys, WE are the ones who are unworthy. God created the most beautiful creature on Earth, and hard-wired her to love us. Don't take that for granted.<br />
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Unless your name is Genghis Khan, Alexander the Great, or Atilla the Hun, <u><b><span style="color: red;">you are not a conqueror</span></b></u> There is nothing manly about "conquering" or "exploiting" women for your own sinful, sexual desires by "hooking up" with as many women as you can. Stop doing it.<br />
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<b>Try taking interest in her and her interests</b>... even if she's not a car, a sport, or a beer can (*please note, I'm not saying women do not enjoy these things). I'm not saying you can't still drink beer, watch sports, or drive your car like Mario Andretti, but it wouldn't kill you to watch a movie/show that SHE likes, to go cheer for HER teams, or listen to HER favorite radio station.<br />
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<b>Pursue her heart</b>. Make it your mission to find out everything you can about her, so that you can partake in her interests, maybe have some semblance of understanding of why she's upset with you, and know exactly what to do in those situations (at least sometimes). Don't just focus on how hot she is, focus on how amazing she is too.<br />
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<b>Give her butterflies</b>. I'm not talking insects here brothers (unless she's into that sort of thing?). I'm talking tell her she's beautiful, cook dinner AND do the dishes, buy her flowers on a day other than Valentine's day, do something spontaneous, plan a date of the things she likes to do, compliment her when you/she walks in the door, hug her, send her good morning texts to let her know you thought of her when you woke up. Make her feel so special that when she tells her friends about you, they struggle to believe you exist. Trust me when I say that if you can do this, it not only makes her feel special (as she should) it will make you feel like the tallest man in the world.<br />
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<b>Be vulnerable</b>. I know that's a scary word for us men, but let her see that there's more to you than sports, cars and beer. Let her know that you have interests that don't include building stuff and blowing it up. It's okay to tell her how you're feeling, in fact, it might just make her love you more.<br />
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<b>Be genuine</b>. Because guess what, you can stop/start doing all the things above, and they won't mean diddly unless it's from the heart. Don't deceive her, just be real. If you can't do that for her, break up with her, give her the chance to find someone who can.<br />
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I said it in the beginning, and I'll say it again. I'm no where near an expert on women. The things I'm saying here aren't difficult to understand. Stop living by the standards of the world, and start living as a man of God. Guess what, if you have a woman in your life currently who cares about you, respects you, honors you, or even can merely "puts up with you", she deserves nothing other than your best.<br />
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What to do about women, you ask?<br />
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Honor. Cherish. Love. Pursue. Respect.<br />
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If I've learned anything from the amazing women I've gotten the chance to be impacted by, it's that those things are enough... and anymore, they're rare. Let's bring chivalry back, let's make a stand.<br />
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Grace and Peace<br />
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<br />Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-4504761806537468562014-02-17T09:45:00.001-05:002014-02-17T09:56:51.354-05:00Holiness, Genuineness, Humility, and Love. <i><u><b>Church. </b></u></i><br />
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I've been spending a lot of time thinking about the word church over the last few weeks. I've been spending a lot of time wrestling with the idea of the disconnect that I see so often between Jesus and church, or even more prevalent, Jesus and religion. Many of you have probably seen the Youtube Viral video Jesus > Religion aka Why I love Jesus and hate religion by Jeff Bethke. I'm not going to repeat what he says, even though I think there is a lot validity there. What I'm going to talk about is why people's perceptions of the church are hindering their perceptions of Jesus, why we are the problem, and why I, at least in some small part, am the solution.<br />
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There's been a lot of talk lately about church in Christian circles. In case you haven't picked up on that, just do a Google search on Donald Miller and his opinions on going to church. People have destroyed this guy for his views... and it's not okay. I'm not saying that I 100% agree with every point he made, but the point is he's bringing to light a huge issue that a lot of people are starting to talk about. That is, what is it about the church that's damaging people's viewpoints on Jesus. Before I go any further, let me make a distinction. I think that people have an issue with <u>the church as an insitution</u> and I think that that is a vastly different (not rightfully so) thing than <u>we the church or the body of Christ.</u> In order to make sure this distinction is clear throughout the rest of this post, when I'm talking about the institution I will refer to it as the church, and when I'm referring to us as the church I will call it the body. Okay, now that that is established let's get to the nitty gritty... and no we are not going fishing in the dark.<br />
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Let me just throw down from the get-go with this: The whole reason I'm writing this post, is because my heart has been breaking the last few weeks for those that don't have a relationship with Christ in a whole new way. I realized today, that the reason my heart is breaking is because as the body we are called to love people, yet, our own perceived righteousness often breaks others. I think it damages those around us that don't know Christ, and too often we are completely oblivious to this happening around us. I'm guilty of it too. Sometimes I get on my pedestal and push God aside and say, "HEY LOOK AT ME, I'M RIGHTEOUS TODAY BECAUSE I _____________ (insert random service/task). I make things about me, not Jesus. I'm not proud of that at all, in fact, I despise that about myself. Now, I could easily sit here and say things like "I'm human" or "It's okay because everyone else does it too" but those things don't make it justifiable. I don't want to be that person. I want to help people see the love of Christ by being the body outside of the church, and within it.<br />
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The simple fact is, that I'm wretched in my sinfulness. That these people that I have ostracized in my own perceived righteousness are not so different from myself. That became really apparent this morning during service when we touched on what Paul writes to Timothy in 1 Timothy 1:15-17:<br />
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<i>"Here is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance: Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners-- of whom I am the worst. But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his unlimited patience as an example to those who would believe in him and receive eternal life. Now to the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen." </i><br />
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You see, I'm like Paul in that, when it comes to the sinners of this world, that Jesus came to save, I am the worst. I think that Paul meant that he knows that he's the worst because his sin is the only that he truly understands and knows within his core. He follows Christ and yet he is still a sinner who needs a savior. It brought to the light, in an even brighter way than ever before, the disgust with which I view my sin. Which is really funny, given that I still project this perceived righteousness to other people. That's something I want to break free of... and that's why I do this. Here's a side story-- I love side stories just an fyi...<br />
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Last week, someone asked me about why I blog. I mentioned that it's a way for me to be transparent and real. He wanted to know why it didn't bother me to share my sins/struggles/victories with people all over the world that I had never met, and most likely won't ever meet. I realized this morning the real answer is that because I want to break free of my own perceived righteousness, and I want to right whatever wrong notions I have given others about myself. The words above, talking about being the worst of the sinners, those words are true. I'm not righteous, I'm no different from anyone else. I'm a sinner, I'm a wretched, lowly, terrible sinner. What's different isn't me... what's different, is Jesus. I am saved by grace, I am saved by HIS righteousness, not my own. That's why I write this, and that's why I struggle with the heartbreak that I feel when I realize that the church is damaging the potential some of these people have to have a relationship with Jesus.<br />
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As the body, we are called to let other people know this. This is where Chuck's message points this morning break down what I'm trying to say (Thanks Chuck!)...<br />
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There are a few things we can do to help combat the struggle people have with the church. As the body, as individuals we should be doing these 4 things (let's be honest, there's more than four, but this is what Chuck gave me to work with)<br />
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1. <i><u><b>Pursue holiness</b></u>. </i>Ephesians 5:1-2 says this, "<i>Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as CHrist loved us and gave himself up for us a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.</i>" We are called to pursue holiness by being imitators of God. We should be loving those around us, we should be sacrificing ourselves for the sake of others, the way Christ sacrificed himself for us. Now, some of you may be thinking... "Dude, there is no way you, or I are willing to hang from a cross and die a brutal and painful death for these other people." I would say you're right, only because, I know we don't need to die that death. When I say we must sacrifice ourselves, I don't mean we have to be crucified for others. I mean we have to give of our time, our talents, our finances, our hearts, and our lives to others in order to lead them onward towards a relationship with Jesus. That's how we pursue holiness. We live like Jesus, and preach the life of Jesus to other people.<br />
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2. <i><u><b>Pursue genuineness. </b></u></i>Refer back to Paul's words to Timothy that I shared above. Paul was being true and genuine when dealing with Timothy. He was being real, vulnerable, and transparent. We can't put on a perceived righteousness or holiness just to give others a perception of ourselves. It's damaging to the message of Christ. The genuine truth is, that when it comes me... I'm far from being a good person. Granted, I would like to think by the world's standards I am a good person, but by Christ's standards (which is what I want to live by) I'm no good. Isaiah 64:6 says "<i>All of us have become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous acts are like filthy rags; we all shrivel up like a leaf and like the wind our sins sweep us away."</i> My good works are no good, and others deserve to know that. In order for me to share Jesus with others I have to be willing to be myself, and be honest about the <b>fact</b> that God deserves all glory, and that without him I am nothing. In order for others to see the love that Christ has for creation, they have to be able to understand the grace and mercy he has shown me.<br />
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3. <i><u><b>Develop humility.</b></u></i> Philippians 2:3 says "<i>Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves."</i> Humility is something we all struggle with. The world has taught us that only the strong survive, which has led us to believe that if we are surviving it's because of our own doing. How often are we quick to blame God in the bad things? Yet, just as quick to praise ourselves in the victorious moments? Humility, as defined by the dictionary, is <u>a modest or low view of one's own importance.</u> Look, I still struggle with this daily, but deep down in my heart I know that I am not important in the grand scheme of things, what is important is Christ, and sharing his love with others. In a conversation I had just last night, about a new opportunity to walk side by side with an amazing girl, I said that my focus is to put God first, then her, my family and friends second, and myself last. Ultimately, I am here to be an imitator of Christ, and if that's true of me I have to develop humility and realize the lowly importance that I possess.<br />
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4. <span style="font-size: large;"><i><u><b>Share Jesus.</b></u></i></span> <span style="font-size: small;">Yeah, I made that one bigger than all the others... wanna fight about it?? (I kid, I kid). Honestly though, of the four points, I think this one is the most important, solely because it is the culmination of the other three. The church shouldn't be damaging people's views of Christ, we should be sharing Jesus. I've said this before and I'll say it again, I think a lot of times the church is perceived as rules and regulations that people have to follow, when Christ is really about relationship. On the phone yesterday, Price said this: "All relationships are the same, your relationship with God, your parents, with Megan, with your roommate, with me... they are all about love, and that love is about putting that other person first." If Christ is about relationship, then in order for me to have that relationship with him, I have to put him first. In order for me to share him with others, and honor my relationship with him, I have to put others first. Which means I have to develop humility, I have to be genuine, and I have to pursue holiness. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;">Please understand, I'm not saying that the church is a bad thing. It just needs to be re-calibrated in a lot of ways. I think that the focus truly needs to be relationship and sharing Jesus, with those that are a part of the body, and those that are not yet a part of the body. I just want to see a change in the church as an institution. I want to stop perpetuating the idea that the church is about rules and regulations, not relationships. We have to humble ourselves and realize that for centuries things like power corruption, hypocrisy, false teaching, and unfair associations have been the problem, and we as people are in a lot of ways the root of that problem. </span>This isn't a comfortable idea, but that's the point. Being a Christ follower isn't comfortable, it's blissfully uncomfortable. There's joy in ripping away the comfort that the world offers for the love that Christ gives freely.<br />
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In fact, sitting at Starbucks near some of our high school youth, that I know have a real grasp on the things that I'm talking about above. I asked them, "In four words or less, what would you say being a Christian means"... Here are the responses I got: <br />
<i><br /></i><i>Loving others like God.</i><br />
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<i>Being Jesus to the least of these.</i><br />
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<i>Striving to be Christ-like</i><br />
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<i>Representing Christ on Earth</i><br />
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<i>Shining the light of Jesus</i><br />
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<i>Loving God with all your heart</i><br />
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<i> </i>This is what gives me hope that we can re-calibrate the church, and get the church and the body back on the same page.<br />
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This is what we need to do in order to share Jesus with others.<br />
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This is what love looks like.<br />
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This is what humility, genuineness, and holiness look like.<br />
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This is real<i> </i>understanding of the joy of a relationship with Christ.<br />
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This. Is. The. Point.<br />
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This is the body, and this SHOULD be the church.<br />
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Grace and Peace<br />
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<br />Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-64058635325728427212014-01-03T22:14:00.000-05:002014-01-03T22:14:08.377-05:00Challenge, Confusion, Comfort, and Culmination. 2013 A Year in Review01.03.2014.<br />
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I started writing the annual "reflect on the past year/look forward to the new year" post for the last week. Each and every time I felt as though I was forcing it, or it didn't have my full attention. Tonight something is different, tonight I <u><b>need</b></u> to write this. I think that's because as of 3:30 pm today, the last two years of my professional life came to a close. In December of 2011 I began working for Cummins Emission Solutions. I worked with the Pricing Team for the last two years, and in the two years I have learned an incredible amount about business and myself. Now, you may be wondering why this is how I decided to begin writing this post, but you see it's because this new year, this new job, is the culmination of 365 days of God radically stretching me in ways I never dreamed possible.<br />
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This last year, I faced a lot of challenges and had a few triumphs. I began a small group of men that have become my Wednesday morning family. These are men that trusted me to lead them, and in turn have invested time, prayers, and energy into my life, my sin, my struggle, and my triumph. I traveled to Eastern Europe and made memories that will never leave me. I took a random trip to Florida with 3 great friends, I went to Gatlinburg with 6 of my best buds to celebrate a brother's marriage. I stood beside two of my dear friends as each of them married the women of their dreams. I moved into a new office building, which at first seemed like more of a headache than a blessing. Little did I know, that with that new office would come new friendships, friendships that have made me a better man, and saved me from myself on more than one occasion. I've gotten to celebrate new babies with many of my friends, and I've gotten to celebrate birthdays of cherished nieces, nephews, and my Goddaughter. I bought a new car (again), and I am thankful that it allows me to get from point A to point B so efficiently. And of course, I accepted a new position that was an answer to months and months of prayers. I am blessed by everything (and trust me, the above is not everything that happened) that God has provided, however, the year hasn't been all laughs and smiles.<br />
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I've stood next to friends as they've buried loved ones. I mourned the loss of my father's two best friends with him, and it strengthened our relationship. I lost touch with good friends. I faced stresses and trials at work beyond my own comprehension. I turned down a job that I thought was perfect for me. I've battled heartache, disappointment, and loss. I found myself going through the motions at times. I faced some of the demons from my past, and I revealed some of the skeletons in my closet. I learned that transparency, as difficult as it is, is the only thing that can heal the pain I still feel from all the things that have happened in the past. And, most importantly, I had to face the man I had become because of all these things. I'll be really honest, 2013 was a difficult year for me to look in the mirror. The stresses of my job, the disappointments in my professional and personal life, started to turn me into a man I didn't like. Thanks to my family, my friends/coworkers, and The Lord I was able to realize how much I didn't like the man I had become. You know, God has a funny way of revealing things to me too. Around the time I began to realize this about myself, I fell in love with a song that came on my computer at work one day. While I realize this song is probably written with the intent to be a love ballad from a man to a woman, I felt like God was using this song to serenade my soul. Go ahead and laugh if you think that's a silly concept, but it's true.<br />
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I Won't Give Up.<br />
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Jason Mraz released a song in 2012 that captured everything I needed to hear from God. That no matter what I was going through, no matter how much I had to learn, God would not give up on me. It became a comfort, each and every time I felt lonely, discouraged, defeated, downtrodden, or unsure of the future, I could play this song and it would lift my spirits. It would calm my nerves and remind me that God understands my journey, He understands my struggles, my fears, my trials, my failures and my uncertainty. He gives me space to be my own man, while still shaping me into the man He is calling me to be. He is also there to celebrate my triumphs (which are really HIS triumphs), share in my joy, love those I love, and smile when I smile. I have a much deeper appreciation of the personal relationship that Christ yearns to share with me, and that I will never fully deserve.<br />
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Culmination at it's finest.<br />
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The culmination of all of this, of the 365 days that according to our calendar composed the year 2013, was the new job that I begin on Monday. God uses every situation to teach me more about my faith, myself, and Him. There was a pivotal point in the 365 day journey of 2013. A moment where I decided to stop stressing about the money, the stress, the desire to change jobs, and the feelings of inadequacy. A moment where I finally handed everything to God and said "Father, I am not capable of doing this alone, whatever is Your Will be done, please". I spent the next few weeks giving of my time and finances in ways that previously, I had made excuses for why they weren't possible. From the worldly, financially responsible perspective I was probably making some silly decisions. From the Kingdom, Biblical, good steward of my resources, I was making the wisest investments of my life. That's when there was this second moment, where I hit my knees and cried out "Thank You Father! Thank you for teaching me about how to be a better man, a better disciple, and a son/friend/brother/coworker/employee/volunteer." That moment was a Tuesday morning, on Wednesday I revealed the moment of revelation, the changes to my giving, and the thankfulness with my Community with a Side of Bacon small group. We rejoiced together, we prayed for continued understanding and giving, and THEY encouraged me. On Thursday morning, I got a message at work asking me to call one of many, many people I had interviewed with. I called, and listened. He wanted to offer me a job, in fact, the offer would be in my Inbox within minutes. I could barely contain myself, I "played it cool and professional" by telling him I would review the offer and let him know. I hung up the phone, I sat down at my desk, and I cried. That's right, this job offer brought me to tears. Not because it was a lot of money, or my "dream job", at that point I didn't know what kind of money was being offered, and I still don't know what my "dream job" is. There were tears because God is good, God provides, and God loves. I not only got to learn valuable lessons, but now I was being blessed beyond words. It was as though, for the first time in many months, I felt... Appreciated. Worthy. Accomplished. I didn't feel those things because of the job itself, I felt those things because I had learned more than I could have asked for about myself. I became a better man in the search for this new job, and God provided the answer to a lot of prayers through this job offer.<br />
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2014.<br />
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I have one prayer for 2014, and one prayer alone. That prayer is to become better. Become a better man, a better friend, a better son, a better brother, a better roommate, a better coworker, a better Uncle, a better teacher, a better leader, a better volunteer, a better grandson, a better giver, a better mentor, and a better men-tee (is that really a word?). 2014 is going to hold it's fair share of challenges, trials, and triumphs. I will still face sin, fear, disappointment, discouragement, depression, anxiety, and failure. However, I will (hopefully) do it more gracefully, because thanks to 2013 I am stronger, because I was able to identify and relinquish control of more of my weakness and need for Christ to be my Savior. I have goals for this year, not resolutions:<br />
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1. Succeed in this job<br />
2. Seek Christ more fervently<br />
3. The general fitness and well-being goal (this is perpetual)<br />
4. Devote more of myself to others<br />
5. Focus more on living well<br />
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Grace and PeaceBrad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-20949485440527433612013-09-17T13:53:00.001-04:002013-09-17T13:53:34.447-04:00What I didn't want to tell you... It's been almost 3 solid months since I've actually <strike>written</strike>, no... posted, anything to this blog. I'd love to take the cop-out and say that it's because life has been grand, or that there hasn't been anything going on that I felt like I needed to write about... The truth is, there's been so much going on that I needed to write about that I didn't want to face the white screen that was awaiting words to be written across it. I didn't want to come to terms with the things that have happened, because a lot of them are difficult things to deal with. I've started probably 4 different posts in the last 3 months, and never finished them... not because they didn't need to be written, not because I wasn't motivated, but because the topics and the circumstances made me sad...<br />
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I started writing this blog almost 4 years ago... and the thought behind it, the purpose in writing was to create a place for me to think "out loud" and to fine tune my writing skills. Just over a year ago, that purpose changed along with the title of my blog. The purpose become to be transparent with others about what I was feeling and what God was teaching me. It was now no longer about me, but about what my life experiences could do to help others. From around the time this new purpose started to form, the end of August 2012, through the end of the year, my blog transformed. I was writing sometimes daily, at least weekly... I produced almost as many posts in that 3 months than I had in the 3 years prior. When I realized that today, it got me thinking... What was it that spurred so much transparency? What happened to that transparency? Had my faith lessened? Was I not growing?<br />
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So. Many. Questions.<br />
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I thought of probably 25-30 questions about what was different from last year to this year... and ultimately, I had to take a hard look at myself. I realized that my writing had become forced, because I was trying to censor what I was saying. Part of this was a result of the feedback I received (some good, some bad), part of it was society trying to tell me I had to be strong for everyone around me, because I'm a man... but mainly, it was me acting like a scared little boy. I got into this mindset that I needed to be this deep, theological writer for anyone to find value in what I was saying. I lost sight that I don't do this to glorify myself, but to glorify God, and that in order to do that, I have to be me. I was reminded of this by a devotion I read this morning, and then two blog posts by a fellow blogger. The <a href="http://ragamuffinsoul.com/2013/09/my-36-hours-as-an-athiest/" target="_blank">first post</a> by Los talked about getting back to the basics of<b> </b><b style="font-style: italic;">knowing God, </b>not just trusting the bloggers/authors/preachers/musicians we follow. It reminded me that I need to really wrestle with the reality of who God is on a daily basis. That was something I needed to read, because too often, I just take the opinion of others around me. The <a href="http://ragamuffinsoul.com/2013/09/filteredlife/" target="_blank">second post</a> was about this filtered image we get of what others' lives look like from Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Vine, etc. I don't want to filter my life, I don't want to give a 90 second jaded, yet glorious glimpse of what my life looks like because<b> the truth is... Even after giving my life to Christ, sometimes my life is hard. And sometimes, things in my life don't make sense. </b>I want people to know that a relationship with Jesus doesn't mean the trials and the tribulations go away, it doesn't mean that you stop battling with lust, depression, self-confidence, pain, self-image, death, etc. It means you don't have to do it alone, it means that through everything God is with you, and in spite of all the bad things <b><i><a href="http://musicalmindset-realnoimitation.blogspot.com/2013/05/sovereign.html" target="_blank">God is still sovereign</a>.</i></b> So hear it is, here's the deal on what's been going on... and what I haven't wanted to admit to you:<br />
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I'm sad/angry/confused about the deaths of my Pops' two best friends. John Norman and John Baute invested so much time, effort, love, lessons, and energy into my life that imagining going through future milestones without them there to celebrate sucks.<br />
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I'm worried about my Pops, my Mom, and the Baute and Norman families. There's nothing I can do or say that will heal the pain that we are all feeling... I feel helpless, and I can't help but hate that feeling.<br />
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I'm complacent within where I am in my career. Entering my third year of "post college career" I thought I'd be in a different place than where I am now. As much as I'm thankful I have a good job, I still feel like I missed the mark some days.<br />
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I'm still fighting the depression I faced for so long, some days I wake up and I'm sad... for no reason at all.<br />
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I'm still doubtful of the future, the present, and the path in between. There are still days I feel distant from God, and I know that's not the case... but it's there.<br />
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I'm still struggling with lust, and 100 other sins that I battle with on a regular basis. While I am saved and redeemed I am in no way righteous. I'm fully aware of that.<br />
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The funny thing is... not only have I not told you all those things, I also haven't told you some things about the beauty of what God is doing in my life:<br />
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I am confident that God will work in the lives of all those affected by the deaths of John Norman and John Baute. In fact, I've already seen it. My relationship with my father is stronger than ever. I was blessed with some quality time with the first friend I ever had even though the circumstances were less than desirable. I've seen a lot of people take a hard look at their lives, and re-prioritize.<br />
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I am made strong in my weakness. This helplessness I feel is a good thing, because it humbles me and allows me to realize that only God can heal the pain that my loved ones are feeling.<br />
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I am learning patience and trust. As difficult as it is to feel complacent, I know there's a reason. I know God's plan is greater than my own, and I know that He is trying to imprint Proverbs 19:21 into my life.<br />
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I am growing in my faith each and every day. I am tested with the battle of depression, and God strengthens me. Each time I get up and dust off the crap that the enemy cloaks me in on those days I feel depressed, I get another day farther away from that time in my life.<br />
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I am hopeful. While I am doubtful of the future, I am hopeful that God is going to do things that I won't be able to fathom, because I know that He's strong enough.<br />
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I am learning the importance of grace. I still don't understand God's grace, but I am so thankful that he forgives me every time I fall. I am redeemed each and every day.<br />
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Ultimately, I am learning that everything going on around me, the good and the bad, is going to glorify God. I'm going to continue to be strengthened and grow in my relationship with Him because I won't back down, and I won't give up. I'm done running and hiding from being transparent. I promised that these would be <a href="http://musicalmindset-realnoimitation.blogspot.com/2012/09/words-through-wreckage.html" target="_blank">Words Through the Wreckage</a> and that's exactly what they will be.<br />
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In the words of Carlos Whitaker... "It's better that way..."<br />
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<br />Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-48820901347033858112013-08-27T12:37:00.000-04:002013-08-27T12:37:00.659-04:00A video that spurred reflection<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I posted the video above to my Facebook profile yesterday. If you haven't watched it, go grab a box of tissues, and prepare yourself for the next 9 minutes... Go ahead, I'll wait.<br />
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Trusting that you all watched the above clip, I'll continue to the point of this post. I love the story of Fred and Lorraine, and I love that Green Shoe Studio decided to do something about it. I love it because of the passion that this 96 year old man put behind the simple lyrics of a song. I love it because I'm a writer, and sometimes being a writer causes me to try and perfect things with big words, and vivid imagery. Fred reminded me that sometimes, the most heartfelt writing, the best words, are those that are simple. He didn't write 6 verses, a chorus, a hook, etc. etc. He just simply wrote a few lines that he thought would honor his wife Lorraine, and honor is exactly what they brought to their relationship. I also love it, because Fred reminds me of my Grandpa Don.<br />
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Grandpa Don is celebrating a birthday today... in Heaven. It's been almost 14 years since passed away, and yet, I still remember the things he taught me, whether he meant too or not. One of the biggest lessons he taught me, was how to love others. The love my Grandpa had for Grandma Paige was unrivaled. I had never seen anything like it, the way he lit up when she entered a room, and how she could command his attention no matter what else was going on around them. They set an example for our entire family. Grandma and Grandpa shared something special, something that is becoming more and more rare these days unfortunately. The best way to describe it, and to take a lesson from Fred, simply said they shared <u style="font-weight: bold;">unconditional love</u>. I could write a really long post, with tons of huge, flowery, vibrant words.. but they wouldn't do it justice. Unconditional love is what they shared between each other, and for everyone they encountered. I am so thankful that I can look back on their example, and know that that's truly what love looks like. I'm thankful that a part of Grandpa Don lives on in me, and I pray that one day I get to experience the same unconditional love with my wife.<br />
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Thank you, Fred for reminding me of the greatest lesson that Grandpa Don ever taught me.<br />
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and Thank you, Grandpa Don... for loving Grandma Paige, and all the rest of us unconditionally. I love you, and I miss you. Happy Birthday Grandpa.<br />
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Grace and PeaceBrad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-67506138833311120892013-06-24T09:19:00.002-04:002013-06-24T09:19:47.946-04:00Imagery of the Glory of the LordDid you think I had forgotten you?<br />
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Don't worry, I'm still here... I've just been on a bit of a hiatus from writing. The funny thing is, I kept trying to justify this hiatus by telling myself, and others, that it was because I was focusing on building relationships face to face. When in actuality, I was at a dead sprint running from all things that cause conviction. I had started to drift again, I don't think it was intentional on my part. I think I just started allowing everything else to be an idol. My job owned me. My bills, my timelines, my home, my car, my friends, and my goals that I was convinced I would achieve only through hard work (on my own, mind you) consumed me. There wasn't any time left after all of those things were attended too. If I am completely vulnerable, as I promised I would be on this blog, I left no time for Jesus. I am the only one at fault for this, I was just so..... tired. I was tired of trying to maintain things, and even though I'm always telling other people our strength comes from The Lord, I wasn't listening to myself. So I just ran.... and I ran... and I ran which made me more and more tired. In the last month I have dealt with every emotion possible, and it all accumulated to a meltdown two weeks ago during first service.<br />
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I was sitting in the back row, next to my parents at CCC during first service. Looking back the entire thing was completely a God moment. First off, because I usually am at the church for 2nd Service and then later that night for Youth Group, lately I haven't been getting up for 1st service, the fact that I did was the start of some awesome things God was going to do for me. The songs that morning during worship were right on point. I started to feel the weight and stress of everything from the last month was too heavy and I couldn't hold it anymore. Then, right before we started the last song, they mentioned that if anyone would like to come to the alter and lay it all before The Lord they were welcome too. We started to sing Rescue, and I looked over at my Dad and saw the tears streaming down his face. I could see the weight of the world lifting from his shoulders. His breathing was different, as though he was relieved from the pressure and pain. I could tell he was thinking about John, one of his best friends who passed away a few weeks ago. It was in that moment that I decided to go forward, to pray for Pops. However, what I didn't know, was that going forward wasn't just for my Dad, it was for me as well. I don't allow myself to be humbled and taken to my knees before The Lord as often as I used too... but that Sunday morning I couldn't stand up under the weight of the last month any longer and I collapsed. I bowed my head and I cried out to God to be rescued from the anger, the pain, the sadness, the loneliness, the misdirection, and the lack of motivation. I asked for forgiveness for running from God, for not creating time for Him. I laid it all down on the alter that morning.<br />
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And as always, My Rescuer was there to pull me from the depths. Except, God didn't just rescue me, He restored me. The last two weeks I have had conversations that have done nothing but affirm the work that God is doing in my heart. Everything from conversations during morning runs with dear friends to phone calls with people I hardly know have been completely God breathed. I was in awe of what He was doing to help me feel restored in Him. Next thing I knew, it was the end of the week... Friday afternoon I hopped in the Jeep and headed down to Spring Hill Camps for the college age retreat. Top down, wind in my face, not a care in the world, I was ready for some relaxation and some fun. This retreat was planned to be a kickoff for the college aged ministry, I was just there to help. It was just supposed to be a weekend to get to know some of the college students in our church. For me, it ended up being so much more than that. After arriving to the camp, and driving around a few times (I may or may not have gotten a little lost...) I parked the Jeep by the entrance to help direct the rest of our group where to go (You know, because if someone as directionally intelligent as me could get lost, everyone else was in trouble...ha). I knew I had a little time to wait before anyone arrived, so I grabbed the little pocket sized Bible out of my glove box and started to flip through it. I turned to Ezekiel and realized I had never read the book of Ezekiel all the way through, in fact, I knew virtually nothing of what this book contained. So I started reading, and decided over the next few weeks I would walk through this book and see what I could learn. I mean, from the very beginning, during Ezekiel's "inaugural vision" (my Bible gives cool headlines), the way that the Spirit of The Lord appears to Ezekiel during this vision is so mind-blowing that I've read and re-read it at least a dozen times since that Friday.<br />
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In fact, I don't usually do this... but I'm going to copy and paste it here:<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text Ezek-1-4" id="en-NLT-20445">"As I looked, I saw a great storm coming from the north, driving before it a huge cloud that flashed with lightning and shone with brilliant light. There was fire inside the cloud, and in the middle of the fire glowed something like gleaming amber.<span class="footnote" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;" value="[<a href="#fen-NLT-20445d" title="See footnote d">d</a>]">[<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ezekiel+1&version=NLT#fen-NLT-20445d" style="color: #b37162; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: top;" title="See footnote d">d</a>]</span></span> <span class="text Ezek-1-5" id="en-NLT-20446"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">5 </span>From the center of the cloud came four living beings that looked human,</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-6" id="en-NLT-20447"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">6 </span>except that each had four faces and four wings.</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-7" id="en-NLT-20448"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">7 </span>Their legs were straight, and their feet had hooves like those of a calf and shone like burnished bronze.</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-8" id="en-NLT-20449"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">8 </span>Under each of their four wings I could see human hands. So each of the four beings had four faces and four wings.</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-9" id="en-NLT-20450"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">9 </span>The wings of each living being touched the wings of the beings beside it. Each one moved straight forward in any direction without turning around.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text Ezek-1-10" id="en-NLT-20451"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">10 </span>Each had a human face in the front, the face of a lion on the right side, the face of an ox on the left side, and the face of an eagle at the back.</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-11" id="en-NLT-20452"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">11 </span>Each had two pairs of outstretched wings—one pair stretched out to touch the wings of the living beings on either side of it, and the other pair covered its body.</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-12" id="en-NLT-20453"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">12 </span>They went in whatever direction the spirit chose, and they moved straight forward in any direction without turning around.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text Ezek-1-13" id="en-NLT-20454"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">13 </span>The living beings looked like bright coals of fire or brilliant torches, and lightning seemed to flash back and forth among them.</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-14" id="en-NLT-20455"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">14 </span>And the living beings darted to and fro like flashes of lightning.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text Ezek-1-15" id="en-NLT-20456"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">15 </span>As I looked at these beings, I saw four wheels touching the ground beside them, one wheel belonging to each.</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-16" id="en-NLT-20457"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">16 </span>The wheels sparkled as if made of beryl. All four wheels looked alike and were made the same; each wheel had a second wheel turning crosswise within it.</span><span class="text Ezek-1-17" id="en-NLT-20458"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">17 </span>The beings could move in any of the four directions they faced, without turning as they moved.</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-18" id="en-NLT-20459"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">18 </span>The rims of the four wheels were tall and frightening, and they were covered with eyes all around.</span><span class="text Ezek-1-19" id="en-NLT-20460"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">19 </span>When the living beings moved, the wheels moved with them. When they flew upward, the wheels went up, too.</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-20" id="en-NLT-20461"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">20 </span>The spirit of the living beings was in the wheels. So wherever the spirit went, the wheels and the living beings also went.</span> <span class="text Ezek-1-21" id="en-NLT-20462"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">21 </span>When the beings moved, the wheels moved. When the beings stopped, the wheels stopped. When the beings flew upward, the wheels rose up, for the spirit of the living beings was in the wheels. </span></span><span class="text Ezek-1-22" id="en-NLT-20463" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">22 </span>Spread out above them was a surface like the sky, glittering like crystal.</span><span style="font-family: inherit;"> </span><span class="text Ezek-1-23" id="en-NLT-20464" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">23 </span>Beneath this surface the wings of each living being stretched out to touch the others’ wings, and each had two wings covering its body.</span><span style="font-family: inherit;"> </span><span class="text Ezek-1-24" id="en-NLT-20465" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">24 </span>As they flew, their wings sounded to me like waves crashing against the shore or like the voice of the Almighty<span class="footnote" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;" value="[<a href="#fen-NLT-20465e" title="See footnote e">e</a>]">[<a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ezekiel+1&version=NLT#fen-NLT-20465e" style="color: #b37162; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: top;" title="See footnote e">e</a>]</span> or like the shouting of a mighty army. When they stopped, they let down their wings.</span><span style="font-family: inherit;"> </span><span class="text Ezek-1-25" id="en-NLT-20466" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">25 </span>As they stood with wings lowered, a voice spoke from beyond the crystal surface above them. </span><span class="text Ezek-1-26" id="en-NLT-20467" style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">26 </span>Above this surface was something that looked like a throne made of blue lapis lazuli. And on this throne high above was a figure whose appearance resembled a man.</span><span style="font-family: inherit;"> </span><span class="text Ezek-1-27" id="en-NLT-20468" style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">27 </span>From what appeared to be his waist up, he looked like gleaming amber, flickering like a fire. And from his waist down, he looked like a burning flame, shining with splendor.</span><span style="font-family: inherit;"> </span><span class="text Ezek-1-28" id="en-NLT-20469" style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;"><span class="versenum" style="font-weight: bold; vertical-align: top;">28 </span>All around him was a glowing halo, like a rainbow shining in the clouds on a rainy day. This is what the glory of the <span class="small-caps" style="font-variant: small-caps;">Lord</span> looked like to me. When I saw it, I fell face down on the ground, and I heard someone’s voice speaking to me."</span></div>
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<span class="text Ezek-1-28" style="background-color: transparent; font-family: inherit;">There aren't even words to describe what an amazing description this is. Up to this point in reading, all I knew about Ezekiel is that he's a Hebrew Prophet, I did a little research and found that Ezekiel means "God will strengthen" and I would imagine that having the Spirit of the Lord reveal himself to you in the way God revealed himself to Ezekiel would surely strengthen even the weakest of souls. It's such a vivid and beautiful image that Ezekiel paints from his vision. However, personally it's one of the last lines that I love the most "This is what the glory of the LORD looked like <u style="font-weight: bold;">to me</u>". You see, throughout scripture the Glory of the Lord looks different to many different people. For me, recently, the glory of the Lord as come in the form of the community I belong too, my small group, my friends, my family. I came to the realization this morning that I have been praying for 25-foot doves, for the Spirit of the Lord to come riding in on a chariot of fire, just like Ezekiel saw. God doesn't do things the <i>obvious </i>way though. No, God doesn't always reveal Himself to us in huge, billboard-esque images. Sometimes, God reveals himself and rescues us in the quiet. It's better that way.</span><br />
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<br />Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-31116918279672445152013-05-21T20:51:00.000-04:002013-05-21T20:51:46.396-04:00Conversation, Conviction, and Correction I'm too busy.<br />
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Today has been too stressful.<br />
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I don't have the time to think about that.<br />
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Those are the lies I catch myself in on a daily basis. Those are the thoughts that literally consume me at work. It's in the midst of those moments, those busy days, those crazy weeks, that God grabs me by the shoulders and says "Stop making excuses, and rest in my grace and mercy". It never fails that just when I think I don't have enough time, or the energy, that's when God sparks conversations that lead to conviction, that leads to the correction.<br />
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Today, was one of those days. Today God showed his love for me through a text from my best friend. A text telling me to look for God's faithfulness in the stress, and to be thanking Him for what I have been given. Most of all, reminding me to trust in the plans God has for me, no matter if I understand the circumstances or not. That's a reminder I needed in the worst way. It should come as no surprise to anyone that I don't handle stress well. I've always put a lot of pressure on myself, mainly to try and meet everyone else's needs and to please others. That pressure constantly drowns me, it's the enemy's way of stealing my joy. Thankfully, I have a best friend that loves me enough to speak truth into my life, and for that I am incredibly grateful.<br />
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It doesn't end there.<br />
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God continues to work, He doesn't just give me enough to relieve the stress, He overflows my cup. He fills me with enough Truth, Love, and conviction that I all I can do is be in awe at how much He loves me. He creates conversation after conversation that help me to grow and walk a little straighter. A second conversation, with a brother who is dear to my heart, provided some insight into the daily struggle of ministry (both occupational and non). We talk about life, ministry, evangelism, Kingdom growth, and accountability. It's because of this brother that some of my struggles are made a little more real, and he helps me to see when my actions are causing others to stumble. I am thankful for that conviction and that accountability. Of course, just when I think it's time to go home and rest, to escape everything that's going on... I flip open my Bible and God uses His Word to sum up the lesson of the day in it's entirety...<br />
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"Then he called the crowd to him along with his disciples and said "<i><b>Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it" </b></i>Mark 8:34-35.<br />
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I need to remind myself of this each and every morning. I need to walk away from my sin, my struggle and walk to my God, who through all of that crap, is still sovereign. I am thankful for conversations, and conviction that leads to correction. Here's to being a better man tomorrow, the day after that, and the day after that, etc, etc.<br />
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Grace and PeaceBrad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-64037942892067645802013-05-06T14:08:00.000-04:002013-05-06T14:08:49.599-04:00Sovereign When I feel like I'm too busy to rest.<br />
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<b><u>My God is still sovereign.</u></b><br />
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When the enemy tries to lure me back into tempting lust.<br />
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<b><u>My God is still sovereign.</u></b><br />
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When I forget who I am, and find myself conforming to society's image of me<br />
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<b><u>My God is still sovereign.</u></b><br />
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When the depression I dealt with in the past, starts to creep back into my present.<br />
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<b><u>My God is still sovereign.</u></b><br />
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When I feel like I'm in a rut, and I begin to lose hope<br />
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<b><u>My God is still sovereign.</u></b><br />
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When I feel like all the constants of life are absent in the middle of any given day.<br />
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Each and every day, I remind myself, that through all the pain, joy, triumph, disappointment, failure, discouragement, anger, bliss, excitement, fear, and craziness in my life-- <u style="font-weight: bold;">My God is still sovereign. </u>That one thing is all I need to continue to push forward, despite how badly I want to quit. My God has never given up on me, despite spitting in His face time and time again, <b><u>My God is still sovereign.. </u></b><br />
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<b><u>Grace and Peace</u></b>Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-21203089950820318252013-04-14T11:49:00.002-04:002013-04-14T11:49:49.732-04:00The Power of ONE. There are a number of struggles I face when it comes to working within ministry. Most of those struggles are the kind that simply "come with the territory". However, there's one of those struggles that usually bothers me more than the others. That struggle of "numbers". Now, any of you that work in ministry probably know exactly what I mean when I say that. It's that idea that the success of your ministry is driven by how many people are attending. I teach College Aged Sunday School, and this time of year, because a lot of students are away at school trying to cap off yet another school year, there are fewer and fewer students in Sunday School. I struggle with that because of a few desires I have for the College Aged Ministry:<br />
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1. I want to see the College Age Ministry thrive in Columbus. In terms of this being a "college town" it's not the same as what I experienced in Lexington. That means a lot of times the turnout for things like Sunday School isn't the same. I want to see that change. I want to see a community of people coming together to intentionally study God's Word in a more intimate setting than a corporate worship service.<br />
2. I want to invest in the lives of the College Age people in Columbus. In order to truly and effectively communicate the importance of the Gospel and to encourage a relationship with Christ I have to have a relationship with the individual. I want to invest in the College Age ministry because I want to see those that are apart of it invest in themselves by taking their faith seriously.<br />
3. I want the College Age ministry to flourish causing a transformation of our city. As much as it surprises me that I'm going to write this next sentence... I love the city of Columbus. I know there's a desire for a lot of college students to escape Columbus, their hometown, and experience other parts of the country. I get it because I was that person. However, Columbus has been good to me post-college, and I want to those that are college age to understand the importance and the impact this city can have for the Kingdom of God.<br />
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Now, looking at those desires, I see a yearning to truly see College Age Ministry be successful in Columbus. I think it will become a success because I think there are people taking action through CCC that are going to make a difference. Those recognition of those desires this morning helped me realize an area in which I fail in ministry. I focus too much sometimes on numbers. Granted I would love to have 25, 50, 100, College Age people in Sunday School every week. But, right now, that's not the reality. In order to effective I need to be present with where the ministry is. This morning, that ministry was <b>one guy</b>. In fact, since I started teaching College Sunday School, this one guy is the only one I've seen consistently. I think he's missed one week the last two months (that's less than I've missed). I realized that developing a relationship with him, even just by catching up on our week and learning about his life <strike>just as important</strike>.. no no, more important than having 100 people in the class and not being able to really get to know them. Investment in the lives of others leads to relationships, relationships lead to community, community leads to impact, impact leads to "success". This morning I am thankful for that <b>one guy</b>. I am thankful for the opportunity to just hear about his week, but more importantly, I am thankful that he was hear. That he's willing to invest his time in being present, and that he's willing to give me feedback on how we can become more effective.<br />
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Columbus is going to see in uprising of 18-24 year olds working to spread the Kingdom through our city. Every movement, every change, every impact... starts with <b>one</b> person. <b>One </b>person choosing to show up to Sunday School when no one else is here, <b>one</b> person that's willing to take on a role doing both Middle School/College Age ministry and say "we can do better", <b>one</b> person to decide that investing in the communities that are Ivy Tech, Harrison College, and IUPUC is going to change the face of our city.<br />
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And when each <b>one</b> of those people come together, a revolution begins.<br />
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In order to influence the culture, you have to infiltrate the culture. Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-82721337830422431542013-04-08T10:56:00.001-04:002013-04-08T11:05:38.599-04:00Pierced, Crushed, Beaten, and Whipped... for MY sin and MY rebellionSometimes, I sit in my desk chair and feel this strange sense of uncomfortable.<br />
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I feel like I don't belong. I don't mean I don't belong at work, or in Columbus, just in general. I have these days where my body just feels... wrong. Where my heart feels heavy and my soul feels crushed. I've written about this before, I've written about the <a href="http://musicalmindset-realnoimitation.blogspot.com/2012/10/an-early-morning-beating-and-story-of.html" target="_blank">bad days</a>. Today didn't start out like that, but it turned into one.<br />
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Anxious. Nervous. Uncomfortable. Sad. Disillusioned. Awkward. Complacent. Unwanted.<br />
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Those are the things the enemy puts into my head. Those are the things the enemy wants me to believe, so I forget that, because of my relationship with Christ I am (or should be):<br />
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These days come in the strangest of ways. Sometimes I wake up feeling that way. Sometimes, it happens in the middle of a conversation. It's never planned, or predicted. It just happens. I used to get really angry about the bad days. Which, in reality, only made the bad days worse. Then I realized that every once in a while the bad days are something I should find comfort in, because I realized this morning... those feelings, that attack from the enemy, is because he desires to make me distant from Christ. Because the enemy doesn't like the relationship I have with Christ. The bad days come, because I'm doing something right. They make me cry out to God while I'm hurting, and they strengthen my relationship with my Creator because each and every time... He answers my cries. Whether that's by a whisper or a whiplash. He answers. </div>
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Today He answered. He answered with a passage from His Word, that made me realize the things that get me down, that bring on the bad days... are nothing compared to the sacrifice He made for me. </div>
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Even though my heart rate increases, and my body feels out of place, and my thoughts are sad and running wild... these is <b>one constant</b>. Christ died on the Cross, for my salvation, He took on my sin, my rebellion so that I could be whole and healed. Regardless of how many times I stray, and how many times the enemy is able to bring on one of the bad days... My Savior is constant. My Savior loves me. My Savior died for me. and My Savior fights for me daily.</div>
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Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-20619915102386406702013-04-04T09:40:00.001-04:002013-04-04T09:40:28.668-04:00Impoverished BeautyThursday Morning.<br />
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It's been a week since we left Moldova, and at this point I'm still trying to wrap my head around everything that happened while we were there. Throughout this last week, on a number of occasions, I have tried to paint a picture of the beauty of Chisinau while also driving home the heart-wrenching poverty that is experienced and faced there on a daily basis. I consider myself a wordsmith when it comes to formulating my thoughts through the keystrokes of my hands. Therefore, I felt that the best way to try and convey the beauty in what I experienced was to write about it.<br />
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From the moment I stepped off the airplane I was captivated and intrigued to experience everything. I knew there would be moments that seemed slightly uncomfortable, which happens anytime you experience a new culture. I had prayed that these moments be few and far between on the flight from Munich to Chisinau. Not because I don't believe that things are taught in uncomfortable moments, but because I didn't want any one moment to distract me from experiencing everything there was to experience. Walking through the airport, culture shock started to set in right way. Everything from the bathrooms to the language being spoken was different. Yet, all so exciting. After experiencing a rather... awkward... bathroom experience, I'll admit I was a little nervous about getting through the airport and getting to our hostel. As usual, God used something very small to remind me that this place, these people, they weren't so different from myself... that reminder, as funny as it is, came in the form of a cardboard box. The first thing I saw after walking out of the Wash Closet was a cardboard box, on a chair, that read "James Beam, Clermont Kentucky". It made everyone on the team laugh, and I think it took a little of the uncertainty away, long enough for the excitement of what was to come to settle in for the next 10 days.<br />
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The city of Chisinau is almost indescribable. It's this place where, everything, from the rolling hills outside the city to the poverty within the busy streets is absolutely beautiful. Now, let me explain what I mean when I describe poverty as beautiful. Don't get me wrong, the poverty of Moldova breaks my heart, and urges me to want to do more for the Moldovan people. Yet, there's a simplicity in the way they live because of the poverty. There's a happiness about the people despite their poverty and there's joy in my heart because of the pride that was shown through personal appearance. These people literally dressed for success every day, no matter whether they were going to church or work, they wore their best clothes. It was as though they were saying to the economy (if it were a tangible thing) "Despite the lack of stability you provide, we are going to be proud of what we have and who we are". That was one of my favorite things about Moldova. The happiness and simplicity I experienced and saw in the faces of the Moldovan people is something similar to what I had experience in Africa and Jamaica... the difference was, it wasn't a product of ignorance to what they didn't have. I believe the Moldovan people are fully aware of the poverty they face, however, instead of allowing it to destroy them, they embrace what they have and make the most of it. Oh how the world would be different if more people viewed things that way. In our culture it's always about "more, more, more" or "new, new, new". I'm guilty of it as well. In fact, this week, on two different occasions I was tempted to spend money on frivolous things. New clothes because they were on sale, even though the clothes I have are more than enough. Or a new golf club because it's spring, even though it probably wouldn't improve my game THAT much. I'm not saying that spending money is entirely a bad thing... and I'm not going to try and be an extremist and say that I'm not going to buy anything new. I just learned while in Moldova, that I need to be more sound in my financial decisions, that sometimes, I need to take pride in what I have... and stop trying to find more.<br />
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I learned a lot about myself, compassion for others, ministry, missions, and investment in others. The wheels are turning now, and I'm looking for new ways to invest in the lives of the next generation. I realize that we don't need to spend time teaching our youth how to be the best at a sport, an instrument, and art, or in business. We need to invest in their lives and teach them how to be the best version of themselves. How to take pride in what they have, and how to be in community with others. Each new generation has an opportunity to change the World... and it's the current generation's job to prepare them to do so. This last year God has been teaching me so much about community and relationships. This trip to Moldova, was God's way of reinforcing everything He's been teaching me. Being intentional about being relational takes on a whole new meaning after seeing how the Moldovan people, and the WMF Staff live amongst and with each other. The staff helped me see that living in community is the ONLY way to truly experience Heaven on Earth. That even in a country as impoverished as Moldova, when a community of believers lives together as one, with one common purpose, the poverty the face... is nothing shy of beautiful.<br />
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Grace and PeaceBrad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-84791493900330111172013-03-26T16:34:00.001-04:002013-03-27T15:24:28.196-04:00An Angel in MoldovaWow.... where do I begin.<br />
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I intended to update my blog more regularly but everything has been a whirlwind, especially the last 3 days. I'm going to do my best to hit the highs and lows of this trip thus far... and I'll fill in details when I return to the States and have a real computer. Basically we traveled all day on Monday (3/18) nothing too crazy happened during travel, which was a good thing. We arrived in Chisinau on Tuesday (3/19) came to the hostel and checked in, went to the mall for a quick snack and caught up on some rest. Wednesday we had a Romanian lesson and then headed to the Internat to help with La Via. I loved the first day there... the kids were just so open and welcoming to us being there, it was great. Thursday we spent the whole day at the school, studying the Poor in Scripture and working with the kids. Friday, we went to a Moldovan "history" museum. It was really cool to see some of the tools, weapons, clothes, etc. that made up the Moldovan culture. That afternoon we just played with the kids, and worked on building some form of relationship with them. Saturday we went to a village, our experience deserves it's own post, so more on that later. I really want to focus on Sunday through today right this moment, because it's what is just causing my heart to break and God is restoring me slowly but surely. Sunday morning we went to a local Orthodox Church to worship for about an hour (a service usually lasts 4 hours). The worship was unlike anything else I had ever experienced. Very structured, and ritualistic. It intrigued me so much. That doesn't mean I necessarily enjoyed the way it was done, but I enjoyed experiencing something new. Here's where things start to pull on the heart strings...<br />
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After service, we met with a staff member at the school, who attends the Orthodox Church. She was so open and honest with us about her opinions of the church, the history of the church, etc. It was heartwarming to hear about her journey through faith, and her relationship with God. She is the epitome of a Proverbs 31 woman, and it shows in the way she serves others, mothers her children, and cares for all of us. Throughout this conversation she mentioned a family that the church was raising money for. This family of 8 had recently had a house fire... and lost everything. That's when the reality of the poverty in this country set in for me personally. I couldn't stop thinking about this family. I prayed for them right then and right there. I know what it's like to lose everything... but I don't know what it's like when "everything" is barely enough to survive on. When everything is most likely family heirlooms from clothes, to furniture to jewelry. When your neighbors and family can't afford to help because everyone is suffering from the poverty, when there is no insurance to cover your home or the contents... when all you have is the Church and your faith in God to rely on. The thoughts of this absolutely broke me... It took everything I had to hold things together. This same feeling stayed in the pit of my stomach until Monday evening. Don't get me wrong, there were bright spots throughout those days... but I'll talk about that more later. Then Monday evening came, and I got back to my room to wind down, check Facebook, the news, and read my Bible. That's when my heart was broken yet again...<br />
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Growing up, I had both sets of grandparents and two sets of great-grandparents. Aside from blood, I had a lot of older people I considered to be family. Warren Broady was one of those people. His daughter Amy, has always been my big sister... and her daugthers are my beloved nieces. I got word from Mom on Monday night that Warren had passed away. My heart was absolutely in shambles. Not only had I been mourning for a family I didn't know, that lost their home, but now I was mourning the loss of someone I loved. I was overwhelmed to say the least. I sat on the stairs of our Hostel crying, shaking, and praying for The Great Comforter to give me peace. God is so good. He brought peace to me through my conversation with my Mom, with Amy and with two other people who I consider two of my best friends. Lucky for me, one of those people is here in Moldova. The leader of our trip came out in the hall and talked to me... she didn't try to sugar coat it, she didn't say any of the cliche things we often say in difficult situations, she simply said "This really sucks, I'm sorry, and I'm here for you if you need me". I am so thankful for Amanda and her heart. The second was from Hayli Goode aka Hammie. I sent her a text shortly after I found out, and her responses were exactly what I needed to find peace in the situation. God used Hayli and her words to calm my heart, and I truly believe that is the only reason I slept at all last night. Thank you dear friends and family for helping me through yet another difficult situation.<br />
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As you can imagine, I awoke with a still burdened spirit. I wasn't sure how to react to everything that had happened the last few days. I knew that today had the potential of just adding to the burden. Today we visited a tuburculosis hospital. This hospital is where children would be sent for 6 months, after their TB had become dormant... just to be certain. We were told a lot of these kids didn't have families, and were from orphanages and that it would be incredibly sad and hard to deal with. Wow does God work in awesome ways. Today was such a blessing. The kids were excited to play with us, to do crafts with us, and just spend time with us. I was overjoyed. The smiles on those kids faces made the very sketchy 3 hour Maxi-Taxi ride completely worthwhile. One kid in particular for me. I have a strong connection with one of the boys at La Via, but other than that... I haven't really felt drawn to any child besides D. However, we walked into the room at the hospital, and I was looking at all the children, taking in everything around me, when one little girl smiled at me. She was precious beyond words. If I had to guess, I would say she was in 4th grade. She was so funny. As we were playing games, I could tell some of the older, bigger kids were kind of pushing her out, and she felt like she wasn't involved. I couldn't have that, so I made sure she got to play. When we started doing the craft, I taught her what to do and she picked up on it instantly. So, I moved on to help some boys that didn't quite understand. That's when I watched out of the corner of my eye as she started to mess up on purpose, so I would have to come back and help her again. It was adorable and heart-warming. She made me feel incredibly special, which helped take the pain I had been feeling away. She finished her Eye of God craft with a huge smile, and proudly showed it to me... about 12 times. She wanted to do another one, but we didn't have the materials...so I allowed her to finish mine for me. I then turned it into a necklace (which I then had to do to hers as well) She was excited that she could wear it around her neck... as I was walking out of the room, I passed the one I made to her and told her she could keep it. She had the biggest grin on her face... and it warmed my heart that something as small as popsicle sticks and yarn could make a little girls day. As we were leaving she followed us down to the lobby, she waited there, not saying a word, until we walked out the doors. As we were walking to the bus stop to leave, I turned back to take one more look at the hospital... and there she was, standing just outside the door, smiling and waving goodbye. She waved from inside the door until I was out of sight, and maybe even longer. She doesn't know this... but she made my day. She was an angel sent by God to lift my spirits today, and I will never forget her, or that precious smile.<br />
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The last three days have been a rollercoaster of emotions. And despite the pain of loss, and the joy of a child's smile.. the one constant has been God's soveriegnty. I am thankful, and overwhelmed by the love of my Heavenly Father for me, His son. We have one more full day here... and it's not going to be anywhere near long enough. Leaving this place will be hard, and pieces of my heart will always remain here with my Angel, La Via, the children, the staff, and the culture. <br />
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<br />Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-6834109652332157892013-03-12T15:47:00.000-04:002013-03-12T15:47:04.287-04:006 days... <span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">6 days.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">Only 6 more days until we leave for Chisinau, Moldova. Each and every day that our departure grows closer my excitement grows exponentially. As do my worries about if 6 days is enough to finish all the things I still need to do before we leave. This is the first time I've gone on a mission trip in the midst of having a full time job (the other two I was still a college student). That adds a new and somewhat stressful twist to the planning and preparation for departure. I generally only have from around 5:30 to whenever I get too tired to keep working on things to spend thinking about what I still need to do, and taking action to do those things. That makes all of this just a little more interesting... Clarity is coming though, about my purpose, my passion, missions work, the corporate business world, etc. Hopefully over the course of the next 3 weeks even more clarity will be gained in each of those areas... which leads to the point of this post. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">Prayers are still needed.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">Prayers are always appreciated when traveling overseas. I have seen the power of prayer first hand and know that we will need it during our travels. There are a 6 things I would ask you to pray for specifically TODAY:</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">1. Personal Growth. Pray that each team member, staff member, and child will see personal growth in our own relationships with Christ. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">2. Intentional Conversations. Sometimes it's difficult to have intentional conversations with those around us about Christ, The Kingdom, and matters of faith. Pray that our team invests time in being intentional about being relational with God, with each other, and with the people of Moldova. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">3. Travel Preparations. Pray that each of our team members can get things set and covered for the time in which we will be gone, with jobs, families, and other outlying responsibilities that we can't put on pause while we are gone. (Contributed by Amanda Martin)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">4. Prepared Hearts. Pray that we can go without expectation but also hearts that are prepared for the work God is going to do both in the orphanage and in our lives. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">5. Families. Pray for our families as we leave them to do the work of the Lord in another country, and pray for the families of the missionaries that are already serving in Moldova. (This includes, mothers/fathers/brothers/sisters/grandparents/children/cats... especially Bobbett, Amanda's cat, she's kind of obsessed with that cat-- don't believe me? Check Instagram. I'm laughing as I write this, so the prayers for laughter that I requested in yesterday's post are working)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">6. Energy/Rest. Pray that over the next six days our team is able to rest at night despite all the things running through our minds as we prepare. Also pray that we have the energy to tie up all loose ends before we leave. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">Those are the 6 things I would ask you to pray for today. Tomorrow I'll have 5 things, then 4, then 3... and so on and so forth. I am encouraged by yours prayers, and by the peace that God has put on my heart that He is going to do great things while I am in Moldova.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="line-height: 18px;">Brad aka Evergreen Tree</span></span>Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-34800218664749222212013-03-11T12:51:00.003-04:002013-03-11T12:51:59.580-04:007 Days... <br />
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<span dir="auto">Bună Ziua!!!!</span></h1>
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7 days.<br />
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Only 7 more days until we leave for Chisinau, Moldova. I am beyond excited. I have been counting down the days for the last two months. During that two month span God has taken care of every little worry and concern I have had about this trip, the funding, the supplies, my own preparedness to go. I am happy to announce that our entire team is fully funded to leave. I was worried about the money, but so many wonderful people (both family and friends) have donated in ways that have literally melted my heart. I raised above and beyond my personal goal and the extra money has been a HUGE blessing to our team. Along with the financial aspect, the donations of markers and games has been unbelievable, and the prayers... oh how thankful I am for your prayers. I am just completely overwhelmed by the love and generosity that this community has shown (however I am in no way surprised by it). So here's a few thoughts to begin the one week countdown:<br />
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Prayers are still needed.<br />
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Prayers are always appreciated when traveling overseas. I have seen the power of prayer first hand and know that we will need it during our travels. There are a 7 things I would ask you to pray for specifically TODAY:<br />
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1.Safe Travel (I know this goes without saying, but I'm saying it anyway)<br />
2. Open Hearts. God is going to work in each of our lives in different ways, pray that we will be open to hearing and learning what God has for us, no matter how difficult it may be.<br />
3. Direction. For me in particular, this trip is going to be somewhat investigative on what's next for me. I have a decision to make in the near future and am hoping that while I am away from home I will be given some clarity.<br />
4. Laughter and Tears. I ask that you pray for these things because I know that while we are there, some of us will need to be broken by God, only to be rebuilt in His image. While at the same time, I ask that you pray that our team not take any moment for granted, from the time we pull out of the church parking lot.<br />
5. Impact. Pray that we have an impact in the lives of the children at La Via and the staff as well. Pray that our time there will be used to revitalize the staff and help them in whatever ways they need us too. That God will use us to really make a difference.<br />
6. Good Health. I for one am notorious for getting sick on mission trips. I think it's generally my "role" to be the one that suffers. I pray that this time, none of us have to worry about sickness, we can be healthy throughout our stay in Chisinau.<br />
7. Change. Pray that our hearts and lives are changed by our trip. Whether that be that it motivates us individually to explore missions more in depth, or just simply that we decide to live more selflessly and less selfishly.<br />
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Those are the 7 things I would ask you to pray for today. Tomorrow I'll have 6 things, then 5, then 4... and so on and so forth. I am encouraged by yours prayers, and by the peace that God has put on my heart that He is going to do great things while I am in Moldova.<br />
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Grace and peace,<br />
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Brad (Which means Evergreen Tree in Romanian... awesome)Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-8441174825067293402013-02-08T11:39:00.002-05:002013-02-08T11:39:37.855-05:00STARTLast night, was incredible.<br />
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For those of you that know me, you probably know I'm a big fan of a select few Christian blogs. One in particular called Stuff Christians Like, is a satirical blog written by a guy named Jon Acuff. Now, I have followed SCL for probably the last 3 or 4 years. It's one of the first things I read every morning. There's humor, there's insight, there's relevance and it's written so well. Jon has also written a few books, I've read two of those books. One was called... not surprisingly... "<i>Stuff Christians Like</i>". The other, was called <i>Quitter</i>. I read <i>Quitter </i>while I was in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. It was exactly what I needed while on that trip. Jon's writing, his story of how he got to where he is, is one of the big reasons I have continually worked on writing this blog, and preparing the ideas for a book that I will write one day. Jon has helped me to realize that if I want to write, I just need to do it on a regular basis.<br />
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#StartNight<br />
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A couple of months ago I heard Jon was releasing a new book called <i>Start</i>. Then, I found out he was going to be holding an event in Franklin, TN called #StartNight. Basically, Dave Ramsey (who Jon works for) told Jon to plan his dream event... and #StartNight was born. Now, most of you know, I am a professional procrastinator. So naturally, when tickets went on sale for #StartNight, I waited until the last possible second to buy one... and wouldn't you know... they were sold out. I was distraught. However, an idea was formed in that moment... Jon loves Twitter, why not use Twitter to get his attention and get a ticket. I started a campaign, and asked everyone that follows me to retweet the following post "I'm starting a personal campaign to get a ticket to @jonacuff event #StartNight please retweet to get his attention"<br />
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And it worked.<br />
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Within about an hour Jon had messaged me and said his team was working on it. By the next day, someone from Dave Ramsey's office called me and said they had a ticket. I was in. I was so excited to have the opportunity to hear from Jon live, but I had no idea what it was going to be like. Even if I would have had expectations, they would have been completely surpassed. Last night, I drove 4 1/2 hours to Franklin, TN to attend #StartNight. It was amazing, there's no other way to describe it. Jon outlined all these ways to "Punch Fear in the Face", talked about the path we should travel on to get to "awesome" instead of walking the straight line to "average". It definitely got me thinking about what's next and helped me realize I have to START walking towards my dreams now, not once the ending is clear and concrete. You might be wondering what that looks like... well....<br />
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It Starts Now.<br />
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That's right, it starts now. The first thing I'm going to do is start taking steps to achieve my dreams of becoming a published author. I got some advice from a guy a few months back that published his first book. He said the best way to start writing a book, is to write 600 words every day. Regardless of whether they are complete crap, you never post them, etc... still write 600 words every day. So that's where I start. It starts today. Every day, from here on out, I'm going to write 600 words a day about something. I have no idea what that will look like, but God will control the path, I just have to start down it. I would love to tell you more about the book and the message behind it, but I'm not sure where it's going at this point. I just know that I can no longer use the excuse, "When God wants me to start it, I will start it"... no, God is not the one that is impeding the progress on my dreams, I am.<br />
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What about you?<br />
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What's your dream? How can you start walking towards achieving that dream right now? If you want to talk about it, hit me up. I'd love to hear about your dream, I'd love to help you start working towards it if I can. Most importantly, I'd love to pray for you. We can't achieve our dreams alone, we need each other.<br />
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It's time to START.<br />
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P.s. For those of you wondering, this blog post is 768 words long ;)<br />
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Grace and PeaceBrad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-1045576522727542762013-02-07T07:41:00.002-05:002013-02-07T07:41:19.899-05:00Trading PlacesThere's this song that I hear pretty often on K Love and The Bridge FM... it's by Jeremy Camp and it's called <u style="font-weight: bold;">This Man</u>. Every lyric is speaking to the true heart and character of Jesus. There's a part this morning though, that really caught my attention. The chorus repeats the same two lines, and those two lines are:<br />
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Would you take the place of this Man?<br />
Would you take the nails from His hands?<br />
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I started to think about those questions. I started to examine myself, and I found myself answering those questions the way I would bet most of us would answer them.<br />
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<b><i><u>"Sure, of course I would... who wouldn't"</u></i></b><br />
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Well. I can tell you...<br />
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<b><u>I wouldn't. </u></b><br />
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Now, stick with me here. That statement may make some people think I am entirely blasphemous, but let's think about that for a second. There are so many reasons why I wouldn't (or couldn't) take the place of Jesus, why I wouldn't take the nails from His hands and allow them to pierce my own. The biggest reason being, I'm not Jesus. I'm a selfish, inwardly focused, sorry Human. I am 100% human. Christ, was both man and GOD. I can't put myself in His shoes and honestly sit here and tell you I would trade Him places, because I know that 1. I wouldn't be asked too 2. I wouldn't be able too. I don't have the same outlook on the world as Christ did. I, like many of you, have been jaded by the ups and downs of life. I have walked away from Christ more times than I would like to admit. I don't have the strength that Christ had, and to be honest, I'm not selfless enough. I don't love others in the same way Christ did, even though I try to every day....<br />
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So...<br />
Could I take the pain? <b>No way</b><br />
Could I take His place? <b>No way</b><br />
Does that make me any less of a Christian? <b>Not at all</b><br />
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Here's the thing... in my honest opinion... I think it takes more love for Christ, and faith in my Creator to admit that I couldn't do it. I am humbling myself this morning before the Lord and saying "Lord, I can't do what you did, so I won't even pretend like I would." It's not about whether or not I would be <i>willing</i> to give my life if God asked me to, the way He called Jesus to die on the Cross. It's about recognizing that there's a reason it was Jesus and not me. It's because I'm not strong enough bring salvation, grace, and forgiveness to the world. Jesus was. Jesus is. Jesus always will be.<br />
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I just have to follow Him, and continue to remind myself that the blood that was shed for me was worth more than I could ever comprehend.<br />
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<br />Grace and PeaceBrad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7045613966744403919.post-2442987706687489452013-02-04T08:46:00.001-05:002013-02-04T08:46:46.704-05:00From the Least of These to Kings and Queens.I have a confession...<br />
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I'm a Christian Radio Junkie. Seriously. My morning commute is one of my favorite times of the day. It's peaceful outside, I generally leave early enough that I don't have to deal with much traffic. So with no traffic, coffee in my mug, and worship music playing from my radio, it's just this intimate time of worship and conversation between God and I. This morning was a perfect example of how starting the morning with K-Love or The Bridge can impact my entire day....<br />
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6:15 AM.<br />
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That's what time I woke up this morning. My alarm hadn't gone off yet but I was still awake. I went to bed around Midnight so I was already dreading how long the day was going to be. Then my phone buzzed as emails started to come in. At 6:20 I was reading emails from my counterparts in the UK. Trying to figure out how to fight the fires of the day. By the time I hoped in the Jeep it was 6:55 and I was already frustrated with work. Then I turned on K-Love to start my drive... and everything changed. I felt the weight of the impending day lift from my shoulders. I felt a peace come over me like a gentle breeze, and I was reminded that through it all, God is with me. I started praying, I started thanking God for the things He does for me each day, for the life I have, for the friends and family, and the opportunities. I asked for forgiveness for my morning transgressions, because even though it was just past 7:00 am I had already sinned. All of this was great, a huge relief to the beginning of a Monday. However, there was one song... one moment when I felt all the stress and worry I had completely slip away...<br />
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Kings and Queens.<br />
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I love this song, but this morning it took on a whole new meaning. This morning, it brought tears to my eyes as I sang along with the lyrics. I was reminded, that we are all royalty as the Children of God, but more importantly, I was reminded that every child deserves to be treated as royalty. That there are people all over the world that need to know that they matter, that they have precious, that they have an inheritance that is the Kingdom of God. That's when the tears started to fall, because I began to think about my upcoming mission trip. <a href="http://musicalmindset-realnoimitation.blogspot.com/2013/01/supporting-call-take-2.html" target="_blank">In March, I'll be going with 6 other people to Moldova (Eastern Europe)</a>. We will be working at an orphanage helping in any way that we can. I will have the opportunity to spend time with these Moldovan children, these children of God. It has become my one desire, that during this trip, I will get to show those kids that they are royalty. I will get to help them find their identity in Christ, and realization that they are saved by grace.<br />
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My heart is dancing.<br />
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The opportunity to share the Gospel, Christ's love, and my own love to these children makes my heart just dance. It's as though Psy and the pistachio's (Super Bowl commercial reference) are literally dancing around in my soul with excitement. I am beyond blessed to have this chance, this week in Moldova, where I get to do my best to impact these young lives. The funny thing is, I have a feeling, that they will have more of an impact on me. God is going to do big things while I'm in Moldova. I cannot wait, to meet my Moldovan brothers and sisters, and see the Royal Family of God grow.<br />
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Grace and Peace.<br />
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<br />Brad Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07684323486043687964noreply@blogger.com0